I am 26 yrs old, a lecturer in mysore n got married to 30 yrs old mr. x, bangalore 2 1/2 months ago bt i was with my husband only for a month. My husband is not interested in s*x not even in love & affection he cally it silly. on our 1st night he said he is like ram n dont have expirience so wil learn slowly. He travells daily 70 km to his office the weird thing is he changed his work 20 days prior to marriage but before he was working near to his place only. after work he goes to gym n comes home at 8;30. every night he gives the reason that he his tired n sleeps off. we hvnt been to honey moon also. sometimes he blames my body weight for not doing s*x properly and this was told by his mother itself. i am 60 kgs n 5". his mom lied about his salary. v both r christians bt now they r telling to follow hinduism as well which i cant. my in laws were asking for house, land, gold for their son n car but i used to ignor later they were saying that it was jus a joke. there family principle is limit talk, limit food n limit love. but mine is a very big family. they were always giving me old n spoilt food. the whole marriage expenses was bourne by my parents. i came to mysore for my exams n shared it with my parents n they spoke with his parents bt soon they got angry n said me not come home as they dont want me n if i come his mom said she wil kill me. i waited for 20 days n went to his house with parents but they pushed us out with all my belongings. then we went to police station there front of police they came for compromise then i came home as ashada was going on but after that neither call nor message frm my husband. every day i am messaging my husband to come n take me home but he is not ready n asks me only to go there alone. my family is not alloed to step inside his house n he will also never come to mysore itseems. i have all the bills and his sms as proof. they are not ready for any family panchayat n counselling. they dont have contact with there relatives n always tell me not to allow my family n relatives home. they hate my family. my husband is black mailing me that if i go to police again he wil become saint. n he sms me to end up n move on. his dad is a heart patient. he shouts n speak always but front of police he holds his chest n sits off. frm 2 months i am sitting at home. i am confused dont know what to do. plz guide n help me out. my whole family is telling to sue case, leave him n move on. bt i want to save my marriage because for me its not a childs play n i have a younger sister.