I have filed under GWA for the custody of my 6.5 years old son.
It is filed in local district court .She has filed for maintenance in same court under S 125.
We have presented each and every evidence to make her each and every allegations wrong.We presented 40 odd documentaly evidences where she presented 2 pages,both fabricated.
The judge ,rather than making order,is consuming each and every date by telling poems,narrating stories etc. etc.
We appreciated his try to settle out the dispute,but in vain although we were ready to settle ,my wife told arrogantly to the judge that she don’t wanted settlement and she should be awarded divorce.After that also 2-3 times she came in witness box and alleged me with many allegations w/o any evidence.
The whole scene was ridiculous,that although case was for child custody she was given many opportunities to speak about divorce,allegations and many more besides childs welfare.I objected strongly but in vain it is ignored.
Also in initial dates she did not appeared before the court 3-4 times also child was absent for 7 hearings.We objected many times but each and every time she has been given full freedom.After 5-6 dates my lawyer was also suggesting me to keep quite and see whatever happening w/o any retalliation.
In the last hearing Judge crossed all the limits.I pleaded for presenting child in the court after long haul she presented it in the court.While sitting she sat in between me and my son so that he should have no sight of us.She was holding his one hand in her hand was continuously telling him something.Possibility is that she was creating a mental pressure upon him.I was shocked to see the reactions of a child.My mother havent seen him for the last 8 months she was calling her to come,My sons reaction to this was that he kept his both hands on face literally hiding all sight.It was horrific.The boy who was very much closer to grandma was reacting with her such way.The same thing happened with me.I pointed out these issue to the judge.But he said that what can court do in this matter?Also he insisted to take his interview on the same moment.I strongly objected by saying that taking boy’s interview in this stressful condition may hamper his mental health.These things are destroying his freedom and innocent childhood.But Judge was noway in mood to liosten.My boy was under tremendous pressure from my wife and her parents.
But Judge made his mind to take interview.Now the interview went like this.
Before interview the boy was trained by 8 or more people so rigorously ,they trained him what to say how to react and many more by blacklmailing him emotionally.They created a huge pressure within him.I was pleading about this.Interview conducted in the presence of both lawyers.My son spend some 10-15 mins with Judge.Then Judge asked me to come at his Chamber.I went then he said to call up my son.When I called he reacted in thye same manner by putting his both palms on face.It was unbeleivable.he was trying to ran away from me.I could not control my tears.I broke down crying,at this jucture my son also started weeping immediately when I started crying.It was his supportive cry to me.He was helpless and dependent to retalliate all these evil doing people.And after this I told judge that How you created trust with the child?What questions you asked and what was your findings ,he said that don’t I have trust on the court.I said I have not said like this I am simply asking you clarification.He got angry and reacted.He himself asked me to transfer my case to Judge and game me two days time to think upon.I am suspicious about a cospiracy behind this in which all these people were involved as judge was always doing hearings in biased manner.My lawyer who was local from the city was also involved with them later.Because I was observing him from 3-4 hearings.
I am very much confirmed that only for the ego satisfaction my wife and her parents are keeping the boy under huge pressure which may destroy his innocent childhood,his mental health and future.
I m planning to plead to Senior court(High court) about these happenings.I also Wanted to submit all happening whatever happened,so that I can get transparent judgement.
Judge gave us 7 as next hearing date,might be he will release order on that date.
My questions are as follows.
1.Did interview taken was justified?
2.Does within 15 mins of interaction, boy devloped confidence to speak freely,just after escaping from the 8 odd people who created huge blackmailing and pressure upon him to behave only as directed?
3.Why did Judge not disclosed the qustions asked to boy?
4.Why Judge allowed to speak my wife about allegations,divorce and many more issue which were not at all related to GWA.hence was simply consumption court’s precious time.
5.Why Judge not listened to conduct interview in a neutral environment?
6.If some mental problems devlopes within the child ,due to mental pressure,with whom I plead later on.It will completely ruin my child.
7.How Judge expected that child will react me positively,as boy has not seen me,not spoke single word with me due to their restrictions?
8.Why didn’t Judge paid attention to our requests about boy's interview?
9.How can I plead to Hon. High court about these incidents?
I want to directly plead and run the case in high court only,is it possible.
I m ruined of but I will not allow my wife and her parents to repeat it with my helpless boy.
Please advice me .I will be thankful to all of you.You people always gave me fair advice expecting same again.