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Smitha (Graphic Designer)     05 May 2012

I want 2 save my marriage

Me and my husband loved each other and got married on 6th june 2011. We had difference of opinion still my husband forced me to get married to him . as i also loved i dint object much. but after marriage listening to his parents words and sister our clash became more. he tried to phycally hit me even i tried to defend it. ut later i used to cry and sit as i couldn defend . then sometimes he used to consol but never say sorry. but one day when i enquired why he is late he dint talk just he went and slept. when i told to drink the milkshake which i prepared he dint respond. with love i pinced him. for that simple thing he hurt himself and told than ur torture i will suicide. i thought he was doing it for scaring me but it accidently got stuck. i only tuk him to hospital there my cousins came for my help as his family was at mysore for new yr. then later he told not to inform his family as he gets scoldings. i listened to him as he was not well. but the next day wen his sister came from mys back we went to their place and told what happened. police had cum 2 hospital there he tol it happened playfully to save his job.later 15 days we were happily living. but after 15 days wen we went to their house at mys for festival they came to know by seeing up d mark. later they started blamiong me. then it became clash between me n his family. after that he reduced speaking with me . one day wen i was watching tv he made big issue calling owner. later with his under his family guidance he has put for counceling. its been 3 months they are simply extending. me and my mom staying at place where me n husband stayed. councelor also their side. first 2 months he gave rent. now they said to cut in advance for owner. i dont kno what is there in there mind. they r not going legally because they know they r false. pl suggest wat need to be done. they r waiting may be for us to put the case ….. i try to call him several times but there is no response from him…. his mother is not allowing him to meet me only. he is staying in his sister place telling lie to conceling that he is in his friend place. i love him . he might also have some feeling. can i do something legally so that he comes back to me.if we send legal notice also they will say same old story that we cant leave them together. We were happy only untill unless his mother involved. can i go to his sister place with legal protection to get him back. cant i do till conceling get over to make him pay rent. because he wont go to mysore also. i dnt have idea still what they want. i love him . he also does if his parents doesnt involve. what i need to be done to get him back without legal litigation



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shivaji (profession)     05 May 2012

Dear Sister,

I undrstood ur problem.

ur marriage is not even one year old. It seems that u love him too much. Is it one sided love? do not hurry. wait for few months. Check whether he also needs u or he is under pressure of someone. wait for atleast 3 months.

Kshirsagar Shivaji

MohammedRaffiq Bijapur (Advocate)     05 May 2012

Hai Smita, Ld Br Shivaji is right. Under prevailing circumstance wait and watch is the best thing. Good Old phrase is there "wounds will get cure as the time passes". When u love ur husband pls tolerate the distance which he has now maintained. Much time u do have for legal battle. I too pray God the best things be happen as early as possible.

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