Close to 12 years of wedding with 2 kids (girl 9 years, boy 6 years) separated since close to 4 years due to suspecious nature of husband. Husband has filed divorce petition and during mediation he is not ready to pay any maintenance for kids and wife. Wife did her MTech after delivering 1st kid where her parents gave her money for her education by paying cash to husband. Husband in return took dd and paid to college now claiming that he has paid college fee and that's the lifetime settlement it seems. Wife has no proof of money given to his as it's always the money given through cash by taking chit funds from her parents to husband. From past 4 years kids school, maintenance everything is taken care by wife and her parents and brother. Kids were admitted to Central school by husband, since the school was 20 km away from the place where wife is staying after separation, wife took kids out of the school and joined to a nearby school where the education cost is 1.5Lakh per kid. Both kids have been sent to swimming and football coaching apart from school which again cost 5k each kid every month. Wife is working and earning 80k per month. Husband is giving reasons of his health, his parents health and not ready to look after even kids education claiming he could afford only in central school and not any other schools. Husband is a project manager at one of the Top 10 IT companies in Bangalore. Since wife was made to sit idle for 9.5 years of marriage she has restarted career as fresher. Husband had made wife to run a food truck , conduct tuitions, be a Montessori teacher to support him financially as he was earning less during their term together in marriage. Husband's father gets 35k pension. Husband has one plot in his name with decent savings. Husband's father has 3 properties in litigation with 50 lakhs plus savings. Husband has 3 elder sisters. The reason for separation is husband always suspects wife with every single man around right from his own father to brother, cousins, friends, unknown person on road etc etc. Husband had installed spy software on wife's mobile to check on her. Wife got to know about it and when questioned he immediately formatted the phone. So no proof of software being installed. Husband's mother is mentally sick and she had tried killing wife in the initial days of wedding and that's when husband and wife came out of husband's parents house and stayed together in a separate house. During which first child was born. After first child family got patched up where husband's parents also started living together. After second kid husband and his parents decided to move closer to husband's sister's place assuring wife that his sister will look after kids and wife can restart career who once was an employee at IT firm as software engineer. But no support from anyone so wife was forced to start food truck to support family's finances. Now after 4 years of separation husband has made couple of attempts to join wife only to have the documents and evidence for the case. Now with all the videos and audios he has approached court for divorce by defaming character of wife. Seeking for guidance from this forum on how to get the maintenance for kids at least for their education till they complete degree and also for compensation for wife.
