My wife had filed a DV case against me (NRI), parents and brother. The FIR was registered in Counselling center in India at Women's Cell. Later on, she withdrew the complaint and came to join me while I was abroad (since her visa was valid). She then cunningly complained to Local police (outside India) and accused me of DV, which was not the case. Since I had my friends and colleagues at work supported me in front of Local Police (as I was innocent), the police gave me a verbal warning and let me off. She is in India now and I have changed job to another country. I don't want her to join me in this new country and harass me again for the same thing. I am also sending her handsome money per month to support her and the daughter via net banking.
What should i do so that she cannot come to this new country where i work ?
To prevent her to file a 498a again, and have its effect on my family, I have asked for a lawyer to issue an affidavit stating that my parents and me do not have any legal relationship.
Please advise what should i do ahead and what not to do.
Even before I could join the new company in a new country she called my HR (stole the number while I was away from my computer at home) to confirm my whereabouts since I withheld date of arrival in the new country. She has also sent a significant amount of money to her brother's account in India via money exchange from abroad.
Can i use the above examples and many more to file a DIVORCE ?
What legal resources can i access abroad to prevent her from coming to my place (I am not going to sponsor her visa but she can still come in as tourist visa) ? Does filing for divorce or dissolution of marriage on my behalf make more vulnerable in the eyes of the law or should I wait for her to file it ? She has been asking for money ( which i have sent ) in the name of savings for the daughter (which is apart from her living expenses). I have given the amount a few days back. Can i quote this also for obtaining a restraint order ? She does not want to live with my parents and respect them. This is the main issue which is bone of contention in our relationship. Being NRI she wants to live with me abroad and never want to entertain my parents need. What shall I do in this case ? Please advise on how can i File a divorce case based on the above events ?