How to disown my mother

Originally posted by : Advocate Ram Babu
	Originally posted by : Kumar Doab The loan is taken from whom? Relative, private moneylender, Bank,NBFC etc etc?   YOU R DOING CHATTING ON FORUM?  WHY DONT YOU TAKE NUMBER AND CHAT?

 

What makes you think you can write and demand it?

 

 

 

 

Originally posted by : Advocate Ram Babu
	Originally posted by : Rama chary Rachakonda The Vedas say "Matru Devo Bhava," Revere your Mother as God. You must revere your mother, who has brought you up with love, care and sacrifice. However famous one may be, if he/she does not revere their mother, they do not deserve respect. A person whose heart is so hard that it does not melt at the pleadings of their mother deserves nothing but ridicule. This principle of adoration applies to the country which gave birth to you too. You must revere the country and follow its culture. WHAT ARE YOU? STONE AGE MAN? CAVE MAN? AL THIS WONT WORK FOR TODAYS GIRLS AND BOYS.  TODAYS GIRLS NEED DV CASE, 498A CASE, MEN NEED LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP, WOMEN ALSO NEED LIVE IN RELATINS.  WHO WANTS PARENTS? WHO WANTS MARRIAGE? THERE WILL BE SHORTY IN FUTURE TIME WHERE THERE ARE NOT MOTEHR AND FATHER ONLY.

 

 

 

Originally posted by : Deepika kumar
	Iam frm broken family. I was with my mom for few yrs, then with my dad till his death. Later with my granny for 2 yrs. I hv a younger sister who was with my mom throughout. She is 5 yrs younger than me. I was married in 2003. My sister got married in 2008 to a DR frm UK. My mom borrowed 3 lacs for my sis wedding exp & later on added up with few more to travel abroad, to clear the amt borrowed frm her son- in- law 3 lacs. Now piled upto 10 lacs for which me & my hubby signed initially as guarantors. Later case was filed in all our names due to non pyt of interest by my mom. So, she took sign frm me & my hubby again accdg to financiers words stating tht v 3 r co-borrowers & shll return amt by 2015. Till now amt is pending. Due to pressure frm my husband rgdg this case lot of issues & v hv gone for divorce. Now im single with 2 kids without any help. My sister is hvng potential to repay. Mom is with my sis. So, if i disown my mom, my sis says she will undertk 10 lacs loan. I cn come out of all her liabilities. V both r own sisters born to same father & mother.

 

Originally posted by : Deepika kumar
	Pvt money lender. 8.5 lacs interest is been paid to him for which there is no documentation. My mother is 67 yrs old now. This money was not borrowed for my education / marriage/ maternity expenses. So, i insist on not taking up her burden. Will this affect me from getting land / flat from my father's mother ?

 

Which documentation; Payment by you and mother or rate of interest / T&C of loan?

Pyt by my mother for interest. Noreceipts for interst paid till now. T & C is that if my mother doesnt pay principle amt, my husband will be caught, nxt will be me. Since i hv gone for divorce my husband wants my mom to arrange a different guarantor & to relieve him as such from the cases. So, now my siater is demanding me to disown my mom as she would be tkng care of my mother henceforth & her loans too.

Originally posted by : Deepika kumar
	Pyt by my mother for interest. Noreceipts for interst paid till now. T & C is that if my mother doesnt pay principle amt, my husband will be caught, nxt will be me. Since i hv gone for divorce my husband wants my mom to arrange a different guarantor & to relieve him as such from the cases. So, now my siater is demanding me to disown my mom as she would be tkng care of my mother henceforth & her loans too.

 

More of less the other Lady is something like buying your share in estate of mother.

It is upto you to decide that you are getting a fair price or not.

 

It is as simple as simple that during slimp financer wants property  to be offerred by owner somewhat 25-35% less tham market price and seller shall be paid after 1 year from signing agreement to sell.

 

It is upto you to decide you T&C to relinquish your stake.

Imp: Your mother is alive. During her life time NO one has forced share.

The property as per you is under debt.

If your sister can end your financial issues then it is upto you decide it.

Prefer to show the Loan dcos to a very able local counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in such/civil matters.

 

 

 

 

 

Only a husband or a wife can be disowned or rather divorced. There is no provision in any law to disown a mother. But if the younger sister wants, let Deepika Kumar give a declaration that she disowns her mother. The younger sister not only assumes upon herself all the liabilities but also actually clears the liabilities. The creditors would then relieve both the sisters out of the liabilities. Until then the elder sister will have no relief.

Such declaration with such language “So, now my siater is demanding me to disown my mom”

May not necessarily have any legal force in it, as far relinquishment of share in Mother’s proeprty is concerned……………………as property seems to be self earned/acquired/absolute in the hands of Mother……………………..and mother is alive.

 

Succession opens on date of death of owner.

Legal heirs/successors have a share if owner deceased without disposing the property in his/her life time by a valid/registered deed.

 

“ as she would be tkng care of my mother henceforth & her loans too.”

 

The younger sister/borrower/guarantor may obtain current loan statement with seal and signature (full amount: Principle+interest-amounts paid=current balance ) obtain hard and soft copy, may pay the loan as per current statement by cheque under proper acknowledgment, obtain latest statement showing full payment
,NOC/NDC, obtain original property docs, latest encumberance report, and close the matter.

 

Thereafter it is felt that younger sister would want to obtain a valid/registered deed say: gift/WILL from mother.

It is between Mother, and her sons/daughters.

 

You want to be relieved from the situation , you may decide what is best in your interest.

 

Once you are relieved try to make up with your husband and try to save your marriage.

 

Try to find some job and be financially independent.

 

You shall have share in estate/property of Father/Granny and Mother that is left undisposed by them their  life time by a valid/registered deed.