Hello, I got married in year 2000. And due to my wife's misbehavior and bad conduct I had to take this decision. She left us with her father in 2007 without my intent and permission. While I, my parents and my Uncle also asked her to not to go. But she denied and went without taking and thinking about my son while he was only 6 years old. Since 2007 she is living with her parents. And I am taking care of my son. During this time once her father asked me to take her back. But I said once I want to discuss this issue with some of their and some of my relatives, then only I will allow her to come back. They agreed and then suddenly one day her father came with one of his friend and one constable, instead of their relatives. Luckily when that constable heard about her behavior, he scolded her father in front of us. Then after some time his father asked my father that they want to marry her daughter somewhere else. We said OK, do whatever you feel comfortable. My son is 16 years old now and living with me. I don't want to marry again, but to take care and look after for my son. During this period she never tried to think about my son. She always asked me to separate from my parents. Last year in December 2015, my father got expired. And then she came after so many years with her father. But we didn't allow them. Now what should I do and how much I will have to pay her for getting divorce.
Also my son do not want to be with her mother. Is there any chance that they can ask my son's custody as he is still Minor. While he hates her.
The reasons of dispute and separation were, she was only 10th pass and mentally was not mature enough to think. She never tried to look after for her cleanliness. And that always made me to hesitant to go near her. I was also not having physical relations with her around 2-3 years after marriage. She always suspected my character. And always caused the depression and tension at home. She never look after for my son and since childhood my son was comfortable with his grand parents.