You do not know how much money your father had in his account. You do not know whether your father had filed a nomination. You do not know whether your father had left a will. Your brother was taking care of him. You were not even visiting your father when he was alive. If your brother has taken all the money, it would have been possible only if your father had an either or survivor or a former or survivor account along with your brother or your father had nominated your brother for the account. Though there are judgments ruling that a nominee alone does not have exclusive beneficial rights over intestate property, most people believe that holding the money in survivor account or nomination gives the successor exclusive right. Your father also would have thought so. The judgments otherwise are a pulling of carpet from under the feet.
For the above reasons and since now it is more than 3 years after your father died, abandon the claim. You have no moral right for the claim.