exemption from oral argument

Have you hired a lawyer? 

Tell him to submit an application for permanent exemption if it is.

If you have submitted written argument, you don't need to remain physical presence. You can submit another petition staying to consider your written argument and exempt your personal presence.

It is compulsory to submit oral arguments physically, although written arguments would be part of judicial record and the Court may pass orders on the basis of it (written arguements).

    You can represent through counsel, but if the court desires to record oral statement or need your presence for oral arguments you have to be present.. Since it is divorce matter the personal attendance may be required. However you may file an application stating reasons for exemption from personal appearance and mention the written arguments on record be considered while deciding the case.