engagement breakup

meri engagement break up ho gayi hai ...meri pahile ek sagayi tut chuki hai ye baat hamne ladkivale ko bataye the and abhi ladkivale muze fasane ke liye meri back life ke love matter ko issue bana rahe hai ... mai shadi ke liye tayyr hu per ladkivale ha ya na me koyi jabab nahi de rahe hai.. mere pitaji shadi ka card lekar ladki ke ghar gaye to unhone card lene se inkar kar diya ... our vo muze fasane ke chhakr me hai to is situation me ladkivale kya action le sakte hai