@ Roshani
I disagree with you.
>> That means you disagree with the grand parents and grand grand parents!!!
u r saying that to escape harassment at natal home, it's better to tolerate abuses at sasural.in other words,u r telling everyone that abuses and harassment(be it at sasural or natal home)are destined for every indian woman.
>> Its matter of happiness. being there at natal or Sasural, it is the fact that IF Women are not going to remain happy at both the place, than WHY damages? Second Marriage??????? Second marriage is more tough. especially in Indian culture.
we all know that the harassment meted out at Sasural is any time more damaging that the taunts given at natal home.
will u say the same thing to a woman being harassed for dowry in her Sasural?
>> As long as there are ONLY 100s (not 1000s) of pain, I support the saying.