Dear Well wishers,
Thank you for all the members who spared some time to go through and for your valuable suggestions,
I got married on 25-03-2012 and I was doing a private job at that time. Me and my wife lived happily for 6 months and after that she got pregnant and had a baby. As the days go on, i left my job as my location is inconvenient and started a business which run successively. When my wife returned to my home with her baby, I noticed several behavioural changes in her as she is very irresponsible to marital resposibilities as a indian wife like waking late morning, telling some stories on my parents, not cooking anything and asking me to bring from hotel, often telling some reason to go to their home etc.I warned her several time to behave like a married woman but she continued the same.
one fine afternoon, I came home for my lunch and found that nothing was cooked and in that temper,I slapped her which resulted blood from her nose. Immediately she called her parents and they came to my home and taken her to their home by abusing me.
I took it light as it was a common theory in every home. But after two week time, two police man came to my home and taken me to the police station and said that a 498(a) case was filed and submitted me to the court and later however release on a bail.
I was shocked with the incident happened and never expected as I gave much freedom to my wife and their parents. in this case I felt ashamed of myself and never called her till now. Atleast they dont called me. Even though, I love my baby and eager to see her, I cant do it as i want to step in their home. but during this, I suggested one of their relative to inform them to withdraw my case and then can sit for a settlement.
but til now, they didnt take any such steps and even informed one of my relative that they will file a case on all my parents for doing marriage with a alcoholic person.
Not more than 7-8 months,I am with my wife but till now i am not getting any communication from them.
what should i do now?
If i bend from my side and approach them, no doubt they will blame me and put my head in their hands.
What my next step? please advice