My wife's parents wrongly influenced her and turned her agianst me. They wanted a divorce on mutual consent and emotionally blackmailed me thorugh a third person to accept it and sign. My parents, out of fear and hurt, advised me to sign it. In this situtation of mental pressure, I signed the mutual consent for divorce and the petition was filed in the court. Her parents are very aggressive in getting this divorce more than my wife. I am damn sure that they have highly influenced my wife into this decision. They are refusing to come down for any talks for compromise.My wife knows very well that the actual mistake is with her only and she is refusing to accept it. She also knows it very well that I will prove that she and her parents are at mistake if they come for any talks in front of a mediator. To defend her ego and her parents, she has agreed to go for a mutual consent divorce.
There is no communication between us. My parents have been highly insulted by my wife and her parents.So, they also want this marriage to end in divorce only.
I am the only person who wants reconciliation but I feel totally lost.
1. Is it possible for me to request the judge in my next session at court to have an in-chamber session to sort this out?
2. I dont want to end this relationship in a divorce.
3.Is it possible that the judge can discuss with me and wife alone without allowing her parents to barge in?
I would like to do everything to make the relation work. If I convey this desire of mine to the judge, will he be able to help me? I can covince my parents. But my wife and her parents are only very aggressive. I dont want to be a divorcee and do a re-marriage. It is entirely against my value system. I just cant allow her parents to decide my future.