Mr. Sufferer..im highly obliged to share my case.....
my bhabhi had filed 498a case against me, my parents, her husband and my younger brother....Case thru FIR was filed in 2009 wid the police...Bhabhi had got married in 2006...She had psychological and depression issues always...She came from a rich family which had political and police connections..Right from 2006 to 2009, we had got several repetitive threats of 498a and hence we used to read material about 498a..we had spoken with people who have started 498a NGO'S in india...we got an idea about 498a...my parents were made to touch the girl's father's feet once to stop them from not filing 498a...even we complained several times to police about her behavior and daily fights, but police reduces the matter each time to mere filing of NC. The matter was taken to social service desk of Thane Police Commissioner, but the girl doesn’t improve.
Girl continues her highly materialistic demands and she wanted a lavish and independent lifestyle where she is not answerable to anyone…We couldn’t fulfill all her demands…She goes to her parents place and filed 498a after 2-3 months at Thane (Mumbai).
My bhabhi had also filed divorce a delhi to harass us but luckily no orders were passed in 3-4 years of the divorce case. My bhabhi had also filed proceedings under 125 CRPC and she states that since inlaws have big properties, hence she should receive a monthly maintenance of Rs. 50,000/- per month and even a share in properties.
Pls make a note that in most of the cases the girl, her family, police, our defendant lawyers for the victims (boys side) – many a times all these people are together behind the scenes..Nobody can have the proofs but we should pay attention to the body language of those around us.
Bhabhi makes an FIR of 30-40 pages..She mentions jewelry which was not gifted in reality. She falsely states that her father has borrowed money (states that they are poor) for doing marriage ceremonies etc whereas the fact is that they are highly affluent with 5-7 top class cars & properties & vacations each time.
She says that she was not given food to eat but bhabhi joins VLCC to reduce her weight and gives her excessive eating on record to the health centre.
She says that in-laws never kept a servant for doing the house work and that she herself did house work but the fact is that we had 5-6 servants in the house for each work and we have proofs and documentary evidences too….We equally had complained to police in writing before 498a was filed coz she used to spread false rumors in society, hence we had sent a letter detailing alls servants working in the house, with their salaries etc. and asked the police to personally verify them..
We also used to send regular letters to Commsioner, Thane about the behavior of bhabhi, 498a threats; we have asserted in all letters that bhabhi has taken back all her stridhan to her parents place and nothing is left at our place….
Bhabhi says in FIR that her husband had hit her on her stomach and hence she had abortion. Fact is her own doctor gives a medical report which tells that she didn’t have no abortion, she had an internal medical pregnancy issues and that she was never pregnant medically.
She mentions incidences in FIR of physical torture at her inlaws house, but fact is she was not present at home of inlaws and all these can be proved.
She hides the gifts and jewelries and various marriage ceremonies done by inlaws..All this inlaws have to prove.
She gives her statement on oath before the Magistrate court and the facts given on oath differ from the FIR…She is also cross-examined by the boy’s lawyer but she cries and makes her own mess by getting confused and nervous before the court.
She tells in FIR, that boys family doesnt have money and repeated dowry demands but she has filed divorce and 125 crpc proceedings at Delhi where she says that boys family have big money and property...
she tells in FIR that boy does not earn any money but she tells in divorce and 125 crpc proceedings that boy earns several lakhs a month.
She stays at Mumbai but she files Divorce and 125 crpc proceedings at Delhi to trouble the boy and his family but inlaws have a proof that she had never relocated to Delhi nor had any crime taken place at Delhi...Everything is done only to cause troubles.
She was earlier married to a person but she hides the fact from her inlaws. She had adulterous relations prior her marriage to my brother but all this was hidden from us…we receive all information about her through unknown people during the course of 498a. But neither our lawyer nor police help us to prove her adulterous nature before the court and the matter was compromised between the husband and wife using a COMPROMISE MOU and the Magistarte court records the compromise and 498a is with drawn… Neither me nor my parents had wanted to compromise the matter and we didn’t sign the MOU nor did we say to the court anything. But since the main parties wanted to compromise, hence the court allows so. She also withdraws her divorce case and proceedings under 125 CRPC from Delhi.
Now after one year of compromise, I get all all proofs that my bhabhi was earlier married and if a female is married earlier w/o divorcing the husband, then such 498A becomes void right from day one…it becomes a case of cheating also//But I am not getting any lawyer or police support to reopen 498a and tell the court right thing…I should equally tell the court about all bhabhi’s false FIR allegations, her earlier marriage , her adulterous relations, cheating, giving false statements before court etc. but all these steps require a lawyer and I don’t have a lawer to support me and my family today coz my bhabhi’s family is extremely rich to influence cases, still I have kept my hopes alive with the goal that I wish to tell the court about the true facts, let it take years but I will fight the court battles and I should also make my bhabhi and her family mad running in different cases.
I am equally studying indiankanoon.org and preparing court cases on my own coz we need to study ourselves and never depend fully on the lawyer…If we have to win, we need to put double the efforts…save evidences for the last stage for the boy’s side benefit….always try to send letters to Commissioner, NGO’S, local police etc. about each thing and read 498a related websites in detail…Always take legal steps for each violation or false statement or false claims done by the girl….All this requires money and our own efforts too but thrive by the motto that girls have made us mad, hence we should make them mad.
Lastly don’t give up and settle the matter…Most of the cases are false.