I want divorce


hi expert, 

          i m from Agra.I got married in May 2013, this was arranged marriage. because i was not ready that's why i was not happy for my marriage. but i have been forced by my family to marry. because my jija who was the middlemen forced my family for this marriage . it was a emotionally torched for me.   

after marriage in these days everything is messed up in my life. we are totally different from each other.  i don't want to live anymore. if i ask that girl for divorce i m sure they will file a dowry case against me n my family. that girl always tried to show that her family has a good back. if anything can be happened then please guide me. my mail id is sssubha23sep@gmail.com . sir i'll wait for your reply. please help me out from this hell. 

 
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Originaly poosted By harshavardhan Singh


hi expert, 

          i m from Agra.I got married in May 2013, this was arranged marriage. because i was not ready that's why i was not happy for my marriage. but i have been forced by my family to marry.

What type of Force brother? Have you been married on gun point or by kidnapping your loveables to blackmail you?

If you have proof of such force and coierce actions prior to your marriage Reg. your consent,then your marriage is  voidable and may be annulled by a decree of nullity Read as sec 12(i) c HMA 1955.

because my jija who was the middlemen forced my family for this marriage . it was a emotionally torched for me.

Same as above  ...

after marriage in these days everything is messed up in my life. we are totally different from each other.  i don't want to live anymore. if i ask that girl for divorce i m sure they will file a dowry case against me n my family.

Don't file divorce until or unless you have no such grounds. Divorce petittion on merely allegations are like mouth war no conclussion is there rather than only harrasment and waste of money. So,better be prepared to collect proof first or else talk to her mutual divorce by peaceful and genuine settlements.

that girl always tried to show that her family has a good back. if anything can be happened then please guide me.

Same as above...

my mail id is sssubha23sep@gmail.com . sir i'll wait for your reply. please help me out from this hell. 

 

 
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Manager

Go for MCD if both want to separate...else you need to wait for 1 Yr to see other grounds. Talk to her and then decide.

 
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mutualy she ll nvr give me divorce. i n my family nvr demand anything frm her side. i want to know without any proof can they file a case against me n my family.

 
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Manager

In India,

Law is gender biased, means more favourable to women in initial stages.

If she or her relatives bribe the police they can file case 498a without any inquiry and put in Jail. So you must be careful.

 
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Forget about law gender biased-ness and something else.

You donot have any right to spoil someone else's life. Try to settle the differences and live with her.

 
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U need to give the relationship some time ..u can't blame ur jija for for ur decision and spoil a girls life..going legally at this stage won't do any good to u ..if the girl has married u with some malicious intention u will definitely get some evidence ..but right now u should not get frustrated and take any wrong decision ..u be right morally and god will be with u.

 
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as you are major at the time of your marriage, you are fully responsible for all the things done by you, no matter whether it is done by your willingness or by any other way. now, if you want to divorce in that case you must wait for one year and after that you both will file the application under sec. 13 b of hindu marriage act, but as you are says that your wife is not ready that if you want divorce you must have to face case of dowery, maintainance, domestic violance.

 
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One of my freind applied for divorce on the grounds of cruelty & desertion. He is married on 3.1.2011 .After marriage they stayed togethor only 23 days. Since my freind is living in dubai, he is applied for her passport & returned to dubai. But his wife was in relation with other boy before marriage. so she didnt took interest in getting passport. Soon after marraige after 23 days (when husband left to dubai), she ran away from husband house & stayed in her mother house. But my freind tried to bring her back. She didnt came back. 2 times my freind went from dubai to convince her. But she didnt returned. My friend took help from so many mediaters. But no use. Finally he filed divorce case on the grounds of cruely & desrtion.

In this case can you please advise me what proof he can show for cruelty & desertion ground. Since she went from my freind house, 2 years 5 month back , she tried to spoil my freind name. so we chosen this ground.How much time it will take to get divorce.

Please advise.....

Thanks.......

 
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if i convert my religion. then in that condition, can i take divorce.... 

 
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