Wife staying with her mother
souren ghosh
(Querist) 30 April 2014
This query is : Resolved
since last april 2013 my wife is staying with my lone mother in law with my daughter due to some severe arguments and i slapped her. i have tried all efforts sothat she can come back. she has not filed any case against me till now in one year. i had sent her money till december 2013 @ monthly 6000-6500/- per month. but the school fees of my daughter @ 2500/- per month i am giving till now. she kept silent on my not sending money. She said to my people that she is not going to stay with me under one roof. neither she is filing any case of divorce against me. i am at a fix for more than one year. she is not allowing me to my daughter in the mother inlaw's house.
please advice what course of action i should take. i am quite perplexed at her behaviour since if she had any clear motif she would have reacted towards me either by 498a or a divorce file or may be crpc125.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 30 April 2014
come with more facts. Mere argument and one slap cannot be the cause.
Kiran Kumar
(Expert) 30 April 2014
first ensure that all conciliatory process are exhausted completely....there shall be sincere effort that the matter is resolved amicably.
but if the things are not settled then you may consider legal options like Restitution of Conjugal Rights and proceedings under Guardianship Act (if advised by local lawyer as per the entire facts)
keep record of the money sent by you and the communication made by you with her.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 30 April 2014
It appears that good days may be back in your life.
Since you once raise your hand, you reach your hand of love this time.
Marital relationship is all about love, affection and compromises, not about satisfying ego.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 30 April 2014
Try to have amicable solution with the help of relatives and common friends.
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 30 April 2014
i do agree with experts. with the help of love and talk all the problem will be solved. Thing twice and step ahead.
Rajeev Kumar
(Expert) 30 April 2014
I do agree with my learned experts the sanctity of marriage is based on love, affection, mutual understanding and caring to each other. It is not go on ego. Better conjugal life is going to start in your life as you are person of realising your own fault with good moral. Keep the all records of payments to your wife, children school fee and your telephone contact records. Try to settle down the matter amicably. If all your attempts went invain then file Restitution of conjugal right, Guardian and Wards act for the custody of your child and pray to the court for Visitation right.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 01 May 2014
Talk to her directly and indirectly and find out amicable settlement, nothing wrong in reconciling and asking for an apology to settle in your married life. Just think of baby also and proceed socially and not legaly.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 01 May 2014
it appears your wife does not wish to wash dirty linen in public . she does not want to file any false cases on you . talk to your mother in law and try to save your marriage
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 01 May 2014
Agreed with all. Settle the matter amicably. Extend your loving hand to her and also her mother who is single.
