Thank you for all the advice, I honestly did not belive i would get such quick response so did not mention a lot of things,
@Alok Tholiya, Thank you for the suggestion, this is way beyond reconsidering. i have not done anything wrong directly or indirectly which i can think of for her to file a cases against me, She had been torturing me for materialistic things from very begining of the marriage. Before i could think of divorce there has been atleast 25 times were she has left and joined her parential home and after long sessions of talks from elders and relatives from both end, the in-laws comes to conclusion that its thier mistake and i have change all over again and take her back. This did not make any changes to her or her family members. They continued harrassing me. The previous to last time she left to her home her brothers called me and my father at the same time and threatned of life and fulthy words about mid night. the next day elders from my and her family gatherd for a talk, In the conversation i proved who is at falt and they admitted thier mistakes. I decided to take her back with no interference from her family atleast for nexxt 6months, mean while with kind of mind set i had i filed a divorce and forgot about it, when she was staying with me they received summons from court, i explained the situation and met my advocate to withdraw the pettion, Then the judge in family court retiered and i did not take any action. The situation changed again the frequent visit of the family members created troublw again and she left. This time she filed a 498a case against me on my Birthday on a friday evening followed by 2nd saturday and sunday. luckily we were not around and with lot of help from friend we managed to escape the arrest and got a bail in time. Then i continued my divorce under the grounds of cruelity. we submited teh FIR and DV act in evidenace and the divorce was dismissed stating the face of the complaint states the cruelity is against the wife.
The FIR she filed against me states i used to drink and thrash her every day and we assolted thier family members and chased her out of the home. with moto of demanding dowry.
She filed DV stating she was not given food and clothing demanding 20k p/m with 25lks compansasion.
we also took help of mediation and they demanded one build house for her self and one for her mom or 50lakhs in cash. only to with draw the case not for divorce.
There is lot of things i have missed one point i just remembered. When the matter was taken up to high court, the first judge who took up the matter wanted me to spend some time with her and then meet him in his cabin ( dual judge ) when i spoke to her, she did not regrit for the mistakes nor she had the goodness to give a second thought.
i am sure she will not change. reconsidering the situation is only going to make my life miserable or even end of me.
Thanks in Advance.