I am pawan from hyd.. I have married my girlfriend in aug 2008 but we were not staying together as I had my elder sister to be married. She stayed with her parents and I satyed with my parents. No one knew that we were married as we wanted to use this as a last option if our parents did not agree to get us married, we taught we would tell them that we are already married and move out. Now my sister got married in Feb this year. I am ready to marry her now but she says she has taken enough all these yrs waitng for me and does not want to get married or move out with me. She says she will go according to her parents wishes and marry someone else. I married her in a temple and I have the certificated and pictures of the marriage however, i did not get the marriage registered. I dont want to lose my wife as I love her truly and I know she has taken this decision coz she is fed up and wants to make their parents happy. We were meeting rgularly sa we both work in the same office and we have intercourse regularly but its been 8 months now that we did not have intercource.... I just want to know that
1. Will she be able to get a divorce in any way when I am not willing to divorce her.
2. Will her parents be able to get her married to someone without taking a proper divorce from me.
3. All I want is to get married and take care of her as Its time for payback .. She has taken a lot for me and I want to take care of her.
I am just worried that she might take some hasty decison for which she might repent later but I do not want to lose her at any cost.
I will not file RCR as I am ready to giver her sometime so that she realises and comes back to me but I am worried that she might use this time to get divorced from me without my willingness.
Can she get a divorcee as we did not stay together in a same home and its been 10 months that we had s*xual intercource. Can these points help her to get a divorce even if I am against divorce. I heard from a frnd that these points are in her favour and she will get a divorce even If I wish against it.
I have hope that she would comeback to me .. all that she needs is time now and I am ready to give her time but I am scared that within this time will she take divorce with the above 2 points that my frnd said are in her favour
If the girl is in illegal custody of her parents then file a police complaint . If police complaint dosent works then file a HCP in the High court. There is also have chances to file RCR proceedings and you have chances for counseling for reconcilation also. You should decide which path you goes.