I am having ccases like 125, domestic violence, 498 against my husband. I dont really want a single penny from him, just wanted him and his family to realise their faults. But at this point I realise that they will never do it. Inspite he have file divorce petition. I dont want to give him divorce but I am having a daughter who is of 3 years and I alone take all care of her. I now with private not well to do job at this crisis time. i relised that he do not love me.
Excusse me, he do not love you? He had se x with you right, that itself is love. Love means se x only and nothing else. After he loved you, you became pregnant and delivered baby, that is the process of love.
I am in delima wheter to give him divorce, since the charges of cases is too much and I am struggling. My daughter is also growing. I feel he is with some other women. please sugest what should I do?
Talk to husband, show him love and ask him to mend his ways not to go behind other women. If you had given him LOVE then why would he go behind other woman seeking LOVE? You did not give him Se x ie LOVE so he is finding Love at other place. Common sense. So, give him love, tell him his daughter misses him, show him daughterly love and get him back and start leading happy marital life.
1) If I do not want to divorce throughout my life, is it possible?
Yes. Go court and tell I not agree to give divorce. Simple.
2) If I die will it be possible for my parents to demand money from my husband for my daughter? and in which condition?
If you die your parents cannot ask money from your husband for your daughter, your daughter can in turn file alimony case and get alimony till she become adult ie till age of 16 and not after that, after that she can file DV case asking money for her studies.
3) If I give him divorce and after certain years I die, will there be any option to ask money from him?(my parnts are not rich so they will not be able to spend much money on cases.)
If you give him divorce, ask money first, take money and then give divorce, once divorce is over, you can ask permanent alimony to husband provided he is of healthy condition and can earn and give money as alimony, if he has some disease he cannot be asked to give you alimony, you can ask money u/s 125 crpc.
and why do your parents come into the picture? Did you marry him for sake of money? So that he can look after your parents? If that was the idea behind getting married, you should have informed your husband that you are marrying him so that he will take care of your parents along with you, and only after he agreed to such condition you should have married him, unlike simply marrying him and then putting conditioin after marriage! It appears that you married this man only for money and nothing else.
What I suggest is, you go back to husband, take back all the cases and lead happy marital life for sake of daughter instead of begging for money in court hall.
You can ask money under 125 crpc, DV, but that will get you money but not husband and not father for your girl child. Think. Talk to husband, its easier and lot better to bow down to husband than to bow down to some stranger sitting in court.
Why I used the word begging?
In your petition or application in court, you will write, the RESPONDET/PEITIONER BEGS TO SUBMIT... hence the word begging..
I really dont want a penny neither divorce. But this point I feel he had never loved me, loves me and will never love me.I am not able to bear the court expenses, his harsh words and time wastage. Please sugest what should I do?
If you are not able to bear court expenses, ask for appointment of goverment lawyer.