Very soon i will be filing for MCD. I am seperated from my husband since 19th Nov'13. Due to compatibility differences and he loosing his interest in me and showing more interest in women outside. Its been more 1.25 yrs we both are living seperately waiting for each other to file for divorce. In the meantime i have saved his facebook chat conversation with girls flirting writing words like " i love you". In due course he also had made his profile on matrimonial website and have been sending request on faceboook to shortlisted girls to move ahead with the interest showed. I have few pictures of girls who shared pics with him of thier half covered bodies. lately while we are seperated he started chatting with a girl of other state he met on social networking site, booked plan tickets to her city for two days, booked a hotel, met her and clicked pictures of early morning with her in the hotel room but with clothes on with girl leaning on his back. since i want to go for MCD i am just collecting these evidence just in case he denies MCD or alimony which he is denying right now, are these evidence sufficient enough if he contest divorce or can these bealso produced in MCD?
Coming back to me, i waited an tried for almost an year til june 2014 to get back to him but he never wanted me back. I started looking ffor a job and am still looking. i started going out with my school friends for clubbing and parties post june 2014 which i eventually started liking as it kept my mind away from his thoughtss. I also met a man who is single and we started talking and meeting often and started clubbing together. Now we both are in love with each other and he wish to marry me but unable since am only seperated aand not divorced. I posted my birthday pics in a club on a social networking site which my seperated husband saved and is now. blackmailing me that he will show thes pictures of clubbing with this guy to everyone in relatives and also said that he hired a private detective to find out more about the infedility.
I was loyal to my husband for 3.5 years of marriage till i stayed in his house even though he stopped loving me. can he prove my infedility or adultery even after being seperated as my relationship with this man started after being seperated for over an year. I know he wont give me divorce as a revenge now as he does not wish me to get married and want me to suffer.
Does his profile of matrimonial website, his chats and visit to another state and pictures of hotel room with that girl be of any help to me in seekin divorcee. he wants to make it dirty , however i want it mutual divorce as i wish to get married now to the man i love.
Please suggest the pro's and con's of both and what can i do to seek divorce asap.
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