I had the so called love marriage & my parents were not really happy with it.I was completely shattered as my husband started treating me like hell just from the fourth day of wedding.He was at the extreme levels of drinking which he use to start at 8 pm & continued till 4 am,he had relationships with other girls which i was never aware of.He tried hitting me on the 4th days of wedding & asked me to accept him the way he was or get divorced.
He use to torture me mentally all the time,use to abuse me,insult me & wanted me to break all the connections with the outside world & stay in one room all the time.He dint allow me to access internet,Tv,social contacts nothing.I had been a very confident,intelligent,career oriented,bubbly & cheerful girl alwz & marriage to me was like I was staying on an island all alone.He just wanted to get a tag of getting married & carry on with his sh*t stuff of girl freinds,p*rn sites,drinks,smokes whole life.He wanted me to stay like dumb fools at home all the time with no social contacts.He took real advantage of my helplessness as I cud not tell anything to parents as was afraid of my dad''s health & it wud hv been a big shock.
Whole day round I use to watch the clock & then use to think wat Im looking at as the next day also would be the same.
I kept a fake face in front of all me relatives,friends,family that Im very happy wid this man as it was a love marriage & I dint want to give a shock to my parents as my father is a very sensitive man.Finally I was left in a very severe stage of depression & also developed suicidal tendencies.My health use to deteriorate with every passing day & I cud see no ray of hope at all.He dint leave any stone unturned to torture me mentally.I use to feel so helpless n humiliated all the time.Every second day he use to ask me get out of my house n get divorced.Then one day he tried to torture me physically & my patience broke.
I cld up my brother & told everything.It was a big shock for him & my mom.We dint tell anything to my dad as he cud not digest this shock.In front of my mom & brother he showed that thrz no major issue & its just a small ups & down in daily life as its a new relation.They asked me to try to resolve the things & this happened two three times but he worsened the things.
Finally I came back home with mutual consent of both families as I urgently needed to be treated.I broke all connections with him as I was undergoing treatment from psychialtrist.I am on anti depressants since past 6 months & counselling sessions.With God;s grace I have started recovering now as I struggled damn hard with exercises,yoga & meditation & all.Doctor advised me to stay in people of my age group & do wtvr gives U happiness & peace.So I am staying in a P.G now with young girls.
In this tenure also he tried harassing me and my family many times.
He calls me after drinks n abuse to the max.He calls my family at midnight after drinks n gives dhamki & abuses all the time that I will do this that.I'll break ur legs,I'll beat ur dad etc etc.We are too scared as he's from a political background family & can do anything.Mine is a very simple god frearing family & we are totally silent as my dad is in bad condition of health coz of this shock and Im already under anti depressants.He says that I'll get u inprisoned under so & so section as U r staying away from ur husband without my permission.We dont have any knowledge abt these legal stuff dont evn want to get into legal cases as he's from a big political background family.PLS HELP...!!