Mental harrasment by my husband-plz help..!!

Miss Tanvi

Whatever you are going through is harassment in marriage and domestic violence. You need not have to go through all these. No lady with self respect deserved to be treated like this by anyone. You can file a suit against your husband for divorce or judicial seperation with alimony and you can take help of any social welfare group for this purpose. Do not waste your precious years after this man who does not care. You deserve better. He is coward and won't harm you if you wanna break free. All the best

Take divorce and live your life but do not filoe false crimilnal cases.  these will wste your time. Being a women you have good chances to take divorce. 

I do not feel that only one can right and other is wrong. there is uncompatibility,,

dear tanvi,

"I too dont feel that only one is right and other is wrong"'

it is too late for any reconcilliation. since your husband also want a divorce,the matter is very simple.

dont cookup any stories for the case.

Its clear that u r going through serious problems which affects ur mind and physic both.if ur husband also wants divorce then go for mutual divorce otherwise consult with a good lawyer and file cases against him.this is a case of cruelty,domestic violence and u can easily get rid of all this.u need not to worry. law is for all not in favour of the people having power..

Be separated, If u wish to spend rest of ur life peacefully.  Always keep fighting tendency against any kind of in justice, If u have to survive. Go as per the advice of Lnd Expert Mr. prabhakar. Do not be afraid of law, court and Police. U have to face.

Hello Mr D.Vikas.K.C & Mr Mahendra kumar,

Thanks for the response & I do respect your point of view.

Everyone on this earth has their own perception.

But to me very honest I had tears in my eyes reading your replies.Kindly don't be so judgemental without knowing the core facts.Thr are cases on this earth in which U get sh*t in return o your inconditional love & sacrifices & mine is an perfect example.Whatever I have mentioned are just few things.If ever U come to know the whole stuff I hv gone thru U'll have tears as well.I have my own restrictions of not quoting each n every incident here but may be in near future whole world comes to know the truth as he has started trying my patience.He is just taking benefit of our silence & innocence but h doesnt know *agar nari maa hai,sehansheelta ki murti hai to nari durga ka roop bhi hai"

Anyways thanks.

Hello Mr D.Vikas.K.C & Mr Mahendra kumar,

Thanks for the response & I do respect your point of view.

Everyone on this earth has their own perception.

But to me very honest I had tears in my eyes reading your replies.Kindly don't be so judgemental without knowing the core facts.Thr are cases on this earth in which U get sh*t in return o your inconditional love & sacrifices & mine is an perfect example.Whatever I have mentioned are just few things.If ever U come to know the whole stuff I hv gone thru U'll have tears as well.I have my own restrictions of not quoting each n every incident here but may be in near future whole world comes to know the truth as he has started trying my patience.He is just taking benefit of our silence & innocence but h doesnt know *agar nari maa hai,sehansheelta ki murti hai to nari durga ka roop bhi hai"

Anyways thanks.

Hello Tanvi,

The problem I have read about you and now since you are in your mothers house. Just talk to ur husband and ask if he is interested for divoce,if yes then go for mutual divorce as it will ease your things ...

Or else anyways u can get divoce on mental hassasment and cruelty.

Once u get divorce you can easily get out of it slowly and lead a happy life.

All the best .....

dear Tanvi,

I appologize,if i hurt you in any way.

I do give "counselling" to troubled families as a part time social activity.

Since,in your case, after a prolonged love life,immediately after marriage and that too around 4th day of marriage, when everything turned upside down,i thought the possibility of some involuntary provocation,from your part.

It happens in most cases of "Love Marriage",as when you are in love,you donot notice any mistake of your partner or you simply ignore it. After,the marriage,people start notificing such acts of misbehaviours etc and starts complaining everything altogether.  This provokes the other partner and like a "fire work" one provocation ignites the other and so on...slowly,in place of love,the villain "hatred" start ruling their life.

It seems that in your life,the unnoticed sadism of your partner may have created hell for you.

once again sorry for my comments.
 

Dear Tanvi

You told that it was a love marriage and you loved that person. I told easy way to get out the problem with mutual consent divorce without any mentak trauma, otherwise if you like yuo can easily fabricate true/false stories and send his entire family in jail and create a enemy for your ful life, I do not underatsnd if someone prosecute others in cases..., how he/she can live with peace throught full life. I will never give suggestion for wasteing time of life to stuck in bad realtion which is again is luck or badluck, getout of thses as easy as possible,,,,

Hello,

Kindly advice Is it mandatory that both the partners should be living separately since 1 year before filing a divorce case??

What I know is that one can't file the case before completion of one year after marriage.

I got married on 2nd-march-09 & I am living separately at my parents house since Oct-09.

One year has been completed.

Is it mandatory that both the partners should be living separately since 1 year before filing a divorce case??

as 1yr has complited u can file the petetion of divorce.

it is not necessary to b living separate for 1 yr  before filing a divorce case,it is after u file the petetion and if it is granted then u both hav 2 live separately for 1yr which is called judicial separation.