Delhi is one city in
fully agree.it had mughal influence.it's slight influence is still there.hence the orthodoxy,compared to mumbai people.
people in the north are more rootless culturally,compared to people from bengal and south.
send them to america,and they become like americans.
people from other towns dont like the culture of delhi.so ur stand is accepted.
if u explain how exactly the "wild" mum inlaw(oops maaji) behaves,u can be guided better.cite a few examples of her atrocious behaviors,so that we can decide how to solve the problems exactly.
also tell,in which city u live currently,if u r comfo telling.