I'm married for 3 years.Problems in my marriage life started from the day 1 when this match was settled. Just after the 10 days of our engagement, my husband called to cancel the marriage saying silly reasons of luck, fate. But they have taken the whole lot amount of dowry of cash, 7 lakhs, 20 thula gold. But later on it happened for the scheduled date. I work for an MNC, Hubby posed that he works as Customs clearance officer, but after marriage I came to know that he has not even done his SSC, he works as a executive, who collects files and signatures on files done by customs officers/appraisers. But it was too late, I was pregnant .One day he himself raised the topic to buy a flat, I appreciated him, and willingly looked for his choice and purchased the flat of 26lakhs, in that I took a verbal promise from him, that I shall not give the Flat for rent , but use for living purpose only. Between I came to know bat his job and education when we were trying for home loan. There is something by name SIBIL, which gives one's information on edu and pay.we thought to buy the flat jointly but, because of his job and edu and salary, he was not eligible for any loan. Hence , i got it registered on my name, till date he did not help me in paying the a rupee in the flat. True colors of him were seen day by day, same implies for my MIL, BIL, FIL. The LIC agaent called me showed the documents that the education and job details posed by husband are wrong. Beside this many things are happening at my house like mother in law asking for the salary ,brother in law misbehaving with me, I have 2 yr old son, Things are becoming unbearable at my side.what case can I file against this guys, firstly to give as a warning.secondly,if this happens again what steps can i take furthur.Please suggest.
He tries to check my purse, take money ,cards.
he takes my books which i read for certifications.One incident , i was shocked, he tore my birthday dress into pieces.
When any function happens at my maternal place, firstly he does not wish to come there, secondly he calls evrybody and bad mouths my dad as thief, asks them to not attend their clebrations.
This are really disturbing.Let me tell you the latest happend today,he told evrybody that i earn 1lakh per month, not willing to pay him any penny, but my salary is jus 30k of which 22k goes for emi, rest amount i pay for my travel and 3k on my sons name in LIC.He doesnt even help for my sons medication, vaccination.
He cant do anything just being a MAN in this society.Ladkiwaale , slaves hai kya, jo moo mei n ayaa bol diya, itna sahen kar chooki hoon phir bhi taane marthe hai. MY BIL locks my bedroom and keeps me fooling around, when i complain the same to Hub, he jus ignores.This has become roz ka natak.MY MIL has openly said that she will not take responsibility of my son to grow.
They have taken all my gold, jwellery, sarees,.They show no respect, love or affection tome nor to my son. Because of this trauma my son is suffering. I daily drop my son at my parents place and go to office.
Bottom line, what case can I file against these guys, firstly to give as a warning.secondly, if this happens again what steps I can take furthur.Please suggest.
