My wife who is professionally qualified was doing job at the time of our marriage 3 years ago. She left job about 9 months after marriage.I am living with my old and ailing parents in a house owned by parents. I have 7 months old daughter. I am a self employed professional, belong to upper middle class. There is no financial problem. W have a common kitchen for all.
Right from day one my wife was ignoring my parents completely and refused to do any household job like cooking etc. and instigating/pressuring me to leave parents house and live in a rented house. I was persuading her not to do so as I am the only son of my ailing parents. After about 2 years of marriage, my wife started ignoring me also and also started sending abusive smses to me from her bedroom.
3 days before my wife threatened that she may commit suicide by locking her bedroom. I called her parents who took her. Before leaving our house, she locked herself in her bedroom and packed all the articles clothes etc. and all the gold ornaments she could lay her hands on. However before leaving she threatened me with dire consequences and told me she will teach e a lesson which I and my parents shall remember for lifetime.
I am apprehending that she may lodge a case with police against me and my parents under sec 498a.
I consulted an advocate who advised me to lodge an FIR. I am confused whether I do so first.
Please advise urgently . Thanks in advance