Above besides the point as I can guess you are a victim of dowry law misuse, further I would have appreciated if you would not have brought a sub-judice matter of Delhi’s r@pe in your dowry query. Since you brought in now have courage to hear my replies too;
Sorry for the same.. but i just wanted to specify that no one knows wats written ahead or wats going in one mind. some people seem to be simple , and masssom types but they are not..and i hv the courage to listen and debate too, no personal grudges ..
On your reply 1 – Small towns cares more for Status match (caste as well as status). By not marrying in your own status a girl coming from poor family would not have seen status above her status and post incidences would have been avoided which are adjustment issues taken color of adversial laws to save her face in a small town. So someone has to face adversial law and here it is you.
dear if these were adjustment probs i wud not had mind. infact my wife had msged me before marriage and asked me a promise that i sud not go for an physical relation with her for atlest a year.. so i kept my promise and did not hv any physical relation.. that is adjustment from end.. tried to cheer her , but she alsuwas had headaqe and no painkillers cud sought out, which forced us to go for citiscan and x rays, and all results said she was normal. this was from my end... so if they were adjustment issues, i wud had taken care of..
Now she reached pune on 1st April and 2nd april she calls her bf and makes plan for the above same. On 6th good friday the same call came which arose suspicion in me , bt i cannot suspect my beloved wife as i loved her. things became clear when i cleared the same to her frens about " Sweetu' then the reality came Sweetu was Kamal..and on 6th may when my parenets went to sort the issue, she insulted them and sent them off. Latter on 1st june i called her and recorded the call and asked her about kamal, she denied that she doesnt know him..if so then why calls were made to kamal behera no., her frenzs gave there statements saying kamal se uski shadi ki baat chali thei but cud nt get married for lack of income of the guy and latter on gt married to me.
they all were told the same story. So non of her frenzs knew bout all this and did not tell me as might b no one wants to brk a marriage. family mebers when knew the cause filled wrong allegations on me, and for today i had to witness the court in rourklea, i did go, bt she did not appear just to haress me. Each time i travel from pune to rkl she doesnt attend and resulting in loss of time. So do u think your long elaborate justification for justice is defined here ????
Now coming back to your storyboard, if the poor girl is from small townRourkela and has a b/f then one need not need a detective from Mumbai or Kolkata to come and do such pre-marriage check. Now don’t tell me that your family believes in such status that you did not believe in pre-marital check of prospective bride or grooms too in arranged marriages. Let us not change century old dynamics of cities / town / villages too while now discussing about dowry.
As said, or its said, " if you have a cow, and u leave it for grazing, that cow doesnt go to ur farm, it goes to your neighbours farm" in hindi its said, " Gai apne khet mai , dusre ke khet ki ghass charti hai, same happened here..which was revealed latter..
we found out all possible details, and her society said she is a gal with good charecter, but latter on from a washerman of there colony, we got an informationn she plays her real charecter in a differnt colony. so its not possible to investigate bout her in all rourkela ?? we did wat was in our reach.
DP Act – Dowry Prohibition Act. In your stories you are mentioning you are charged for taking dowry which according to you is false. Looking at your profile pic. I donot think you were not born when DP Act came into existence in India in 1961. Further I don’t think when DP Act came into existence your folks back home in small town Rourkela did not knew about it at the time of your marriage. In the Act one of the Format is about signing List of Articles by bride – groom - families with witnesses as binding. My reference was to that List and question was why you did not insist to sign it with poor girl – her side of family? Had you donethat the dowry stories you are charged now could have avoided. That is what law says in cities and towns and villages. Another question here that forms is how come your folks also asking for justice when they knew well of this List and did not insist to get it signed by brides side? For understanding this much you need not have to be Lawyer. Now why you are afraid of questions both you and poor girl will be questioned.
For this i just asked you for common man who are undergoing false dowry cases and what actions have been taken by court once this was rulled out the case was false ? did any women get any punishment for pulling the man behind bars wth entire family ?
In my case i am not a dowry victim as i was well prepared and kept my cards with me and thanks to my 6th sense. 13th when she left home, before she was leaving she got a bashing from her grandmom . My sister called me in office and informed me. an then she was leaving home wthout meeting me, all of a sudden. I asked my sister to vieo record all the stuff silently and all her nautanki got recorded. latter she even took my moms jwelry around 4 laks and told we will return in 10 days. latter on she goes and starts all this nusaince of her tourcher and stuff. if you are on FB, do add me and u will surely see the realtime pics..when she was with me in Pune. Might be your perception will surely change..
today my dad is ill and m the only one earning dont u think its a mental harresment for me.??? and physical torment ??? they are poor, no doubt but sorry to say it was all for money.
So just wanted to know one thing in my case if the favour is in my side and defamation is fined and worst case they are not able to pay , will she and her family be imprisoed ? if no wat are the alternatives..
i wish i cud discuss my all case with you and u were my laywer and had been fighting in my favour after knowing my background and reality as i am honest and wann an honest laywer to be in my side keep me sugesting to bring such peeple in the claws of law for mis using and haresing people for money..!!!
. i did not ment to argue with u, as i am in such a state that aroused fire in me and it will only extinguish once i get a correct verdict.