for those who desire to marry here my advice...
1.Immediately after looking girl don feel hiped or prepare to marry her.
2.don't yield to girl or her family members show off for example .... telling about their family status, talkinh hi fi.. hospitality.. more talkative father in law..... etc
3. don see money status of family as first priority. their sincearity and reality is important.
4.see in detail wether girl is really interested to marry you or forcibly parents doing her marriage.....
5.asses mind of girl less communicative,non expressive girl after engagement is a sign of future disaster!!
many things i experienced and came out.... u can mail me personally to firstname.lastname@example.org for further communication. be alert!!!!!!