Legal notice to wife

To me, you know the behaviour, conduct and character etc. of your wife.  So you think.  If you wish to continue your family life amicably settle the issue by taking the help of your elders, her elders and well wishers of both of you. If your wife thinks positively for legal notice, then no problem otherwise she will also ready to fight in court.

The matter between Wife and Husband is a very delicate matter. Therefore, it is for you to decide on the matter and not depend upon advice from others.

i am really appreciated you that you are thinking about your child. Better to solve the issue by amicable manner with the support of senior and friends. If you issue notice then it added  fuel to the fire. so think and act . for  which better to seeking local lawyer advise.

There may be several famous counseling centers and District Legal Services Authority, an approach to them let everything in be black and white before Mediators that provides a record of your efforts.  The notices will be served through them as a conciliation petition, the minutes, written statements, findings will be on authentic record that may help you in future litigation.  There are many voluntary organizations that exclusively help men in matrimonial affairs such as Shoneekapoor etc.  Search in google and they will provide you guidance free of cost.

Thanks for your valuable advise. Really appreciate.

There is nothing wrong in giving a chance to your wife to reconcile her differences with you and rejoin you in the marital voyage once again to maintain the sanctity of the marriage. 

If you feel that by sending  legal notice she may realise her mistake and rejoin you, then you can go ahead with the proposed legal notice.

However if the legal notice provokes her to go for more false cases against you, then you may have to be prepared to face those eventualities as well.

If you feel that it is no more possible or feasible to live with her under the stressful conditions and not able to tolerate her tortures anymore, you may even plan to file a divorce case directly 

You may discuss with the elders of your family and come to a conclusion about the next step on this. 

@G.L.N. Prasad, Sir, please let me know the process of approaching District Legal Services Authority. do I need to visit there on it can be done online?

Do I need to give any written complaint/application over there?

You can approach District legal services authority with an application containing the details of your marriage history, the problems you are facing now and the relief you desire for which you have approached the DLSA.

On receipt of your of your complaint against her, the authorities will send her a notice to appear before them for mediation/counselling or reconciling the differences between you both 

You may walk in to the nearest court within your residential jurisdiction and submit an application to this effect. 

The technical name of such petition is PLC (Pre Litigation conciliation), there are approved family counseling centers having experts in such committee including a qualified Psychologist and a woman member. DLS can refer the matter to FCC if the wife is not agreeable to such reconciliation. There is no established laid down policy, and some insist on written statements and record the reasons /objection of the respondent for not reconciling the issue.  Advocates are not necessary, and a simple petition with such affidavit in three copies and a stamped and addressed envelope (Respondent's address) are sufficient.  You can send the petition by local speed post..

@G.L.N. Prasad, Thank you for such deep advise.

Try to settle the issues amicably.

Instead of issuance of legal notice or any other action it would be better to rope in relatives / elderly respectable persons of society / friends to reconcile and save the matrimonial institution as well as better upbringing of the minor and interest of both families. 

If you want to give a divorce to your wife, then you don't need to give her notice. It is not compulsory. But the family court gives you a chance to settle the matter in the mediation center. At that time of mediation you can think about your family and your child. After that, you have a chance to go with your first decision or you can enjoy your life with your wife and children.

In this sense, the family matter is a very delicate matter. so you need to think with your heart, not your mind.

The facts posted suggest the best option is in approaching the Family Court seeking divorce. during the divorce proceedings also, there are  chances for mediation and reconciliation. Counselling is also inherent part of the procedure. Any soft option would only boomerang and it could be at the receiving end of many a court proceeding under DV Act, 498A IPC etc., etc.