@saravanan s: yes sir, and thats y i need some help if there are any books or forums available.
@sainath: 498a case is still under investigation with police. its been 6 months since i ve filed a complaint. He has taken bail against the 498a. we have got the 13 1 a postponed by the legal aid in his native so that we can get t transfered to my jurisdiction. The lawyer dint even know about the dismissal of the case. Reasons being: We cannot afford lawyers after going thru so much of loss. We r sure they ll get hold of this lawyer also and bribe him. If i myself argue, den they wont ve anyone to bribe na? oh and Lawyers ask you to lie so much which i dont think i can do. But yes, i do realise i need the legal assistance. They ask so many documents in so many formats :(
@yashwardhan: yes sir, thank you for your help. I will contact you for ur valuable guidance.