My wife has made my life miserable. There have been several heated arguments in the past 3-4 years and at times she went to her parents house for up to 3-9 months and exerted pressure on us to come and take her back else they will register dowry harassment and domestic violence cases against us. We went to her parents place to ask her to come back and since then every now and then we are blackmailed that if her wishes are not fulfilled she will put us behind the bars by registering the false cases of domestic violence and dowry harassment.
I had no intentions to expand the family but she provoked me to get physical and when the next day I purchased the ipill from a chemist shop and asked her to take the ipill as I don't want to expand the family. She said ok to it and the very next day, she said 'congrats, we are blessed with a baby'. When I enquired about the status of ipill, she said she flushed it in the toilet. Am I legally bound to take up the responsibility of the child when there was no consent for expanding the family. Though on human grounds, the baby is in my house, I am bearing all the expenses to meet his basic requirements but will not give him a fatherly affection as it is an insult to my self respect.
Recently she hatched a conspiracy with her parents and they went to the police station and harassed my parents. Then they started their game and the cop asked me what to do, either do a patch up or I will register the case. I asked the cop to at least show me the complaint and was shocked to see that my wife has given an application with an allegations that my parents are continuously harassing her for failing to meet the dowry demands and she is physically tortured". When I questioned her on the authenticity of her allegations, her father said "every thing is fair in love and war" even the cop said, this is just the beginning when the matter moves to court there will be more n more lies.
As we had no choice so we ended up signing a letter for reconciliation of differences or be ready to live behind the bars.
Relations can not be improved forcefully that too when the person levies false allegations and harass my parents unnecessarily. I am totally disturbed and not able to take a normal sleep. I just woke up at 2:30 am and searching the web for some help
Is there no hope of life for the poor husband? or they bound to suffer at the hands of wife and in-laws? and wait for the death to relieve them of all the pains.
Please advice.
