Wife filed for divorce
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Anonymous
(Querist) 05 September 2017
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Hi, i was married in 2016, through matrimonial website. things happened so quick that I could not realize what was happening around. during initial talks she expressed her intention to support her family after marriage by giving INR 10000 per month for which i had not objection. after our marriage. she never used to come out with me before marriage saying her family will not permit. Soon we got married, one first night we tried to get intimate but she was not showing interest and I did not wanted to force her thinking that she must be comfortable. after few days we tried to get intimate but due to her physical condition ( she is heavy body type), she used to avoid by giving lame excuse. All weekends she used to make a point she visits her mothers house and there by we never had time together. she used to say that it was not necessary to get intimate right after getting married. i deleted my profile for matrimonial website but she was not ready to delete her profile when asked why she replied that she did not wanted someone to know that she was married. Her parents were more interested on my property. they had insisted my to take my property share from my parents and to say at my in laws house. for which i was not ready. on the second day of our marriage i had give her one chain, one ring to my wife as i dont have the habit of wearing ornaments. during marriage we have give her 15 sovereigns gold. since i did not have bank locker she had kept jewelry at her fathers bank.
one day we had petty fight over food and i called her father to let him know what was happening but instead of solving the issue her father came to my house and took her to their house. in-spite of my family trying to interfering her family was were stubborn and took her. my self and my parents visited her house couple of times to solve the issue but there were not showing any interest. one day they called me to their house and told that his daughter was not interested in continuing the marriage and wanted divorce under mutual grounds, for which we agreed. we meet her lawyer and said that they would file case under two grounds non consummation of marriage and cruelty grounds and later during the proceedings they would withdraw cruelty and continue the case under non consummation of marriage. but later they have filed domestic violence case at traffic court and are seeking maintenance
To be frank I was in relationship with my junior for 9 years, during that period we had got intimate many times. we could not get married due to circumstances. now my wife side is calming that I am impotent and not fit for marriage. i have even did medical test and the results indicated that i had not issues.
All issues started when i said lets buy a property and how much she had in savings, from that day her character/ behavior changed. She was always keen on separating me from my parents and to settle at her mothers house. her parents used to interfere in our day to day life which i was not comfortable and the same was told to her. After which she started to pick silly stuff and fight with me
Adding to it they are demanding 35 lakhs as compensation and they have even mentioned that the jewelry which we gave is not with them and it is with me. which was false. we did not have any function/get together/ festival to take the jewelry for the locker. can some one please advice on this.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 05 September 2017
If your factual version is true you'd emerge victorious in both the domestic violence case and Maintenance case as she has left your society without reasonable cause.in which case she is not entitled to any maintenance. You try for MCD or go for contested divorce on the ground of non consummation of marriage by your wife.She is foisting false cases against you. After your divorce and winning dv case you can file Malicious prosecution case against your wife on the ground of her filing false cases against you and proving so. You can also file perjury case against her.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 05 September 2017
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P. Venu
(Expert) 05 September 2017
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Anonymous
(Querist) 05 September 2017
Hi all please help me with this case as am also facing same alligations from my wife
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 07 September 2017
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