Cheating by a man to a woman
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Anonymous
(Querist) 20 February 2017
This query is : Resolved
Today is the day when I would like to confess the most bitter truth of my life.! I met a boy two years back during I have started my business, I was so focused girl about my goal of life to become an entrepreneur after meeting with him we have started talking together but still I was so focused and practical about my life... After sometime he asked for the meeting and we met at CCD very first time on 10-02-2015, it's was a formal meeting and then we went back to home, there was a few attraction found for me by him and we started talking via calls almost on daily basis and whenever he gets its become his habit to speak to me. He gets more attracted towards me and then we met again at v3s mall! He came there to let me his feelings about me after listening to him I didn't answered because i knew some of my goals and my family conditions. I took time and asked him to know me first then decide I have told him each and everything above myself my family my situations very clearly. He holdded my hands and assured me to be with me and will support me forever and specifically mentioned "Mai tujhe tere papa se jayada pyaar karunga unse jayada care karunga" after listening to this statement I accepted his proposal and we started this relationship together.! He was in Delhi for about 3 months owning his flat in kaushambi, during the same time I have cared for him like a wife. I cared to cook for him for each and everything which I can do best for him! On the daily basis he picks me up from my home and we live together like a couple! I have fulfilled all his needs, at the same time when this relationship become so strong and truthful I and he we both informed to our families also then the day came he has to back to home Moradabad to settle his life as he asked me for two years to get married. I happily wished him luck and best wishes! Now this is the turning point of this relationship he went back and stopped talking to me as he was which makes me feel so alone and become the reason to fight. With only this excuse that he was busy he can't speak to me. I felt so insecure and asked him many times if you can't keep then why you made it. He always says he needs time. He comes Delhi and asked me for the time and assured me this behavior will not happen again. He commits when he presents with me but during my absence he forgets what he committed. There comes a day he literally not responding for anything then I made a call to his mother and informed her that he stopped talking to me he just only wanted to get physical with me then his mother disconnected the call and didn't answered any of my call or msg. Meanwhile I met his brother and sister also and as he made me introduced with all his family and friends I was a bit assured that he can't leave me after some more time the time came in his life like he needs some money. Anyhow I have arranged and informed him that please don't bring money in any relationship but just because I loved him so much I always helped him and support him anyway no Matter what. After a year my brother had an major accident and I was in so need I was so alone I told him about my condition he replied that he is not well he can't come he denied to help me financially also. My brother was on bed rest for a year. My mother is so aged and ill so left so alone again after that I was suffering from some self which also require treatment and I informed him for the same again he forwardly denied to help me out. He always left me alone in my needs and I have supported him ever he needed. As the situation become so worst at my family also I asked his father to help because he stopped talking to me I left only with this option then I spoke to his father and tell them everything about my condition his father always treated me like a daughter and gets ready to help me financially but denied to made the relationship as his son is not settled till yet I asked him that I can wait for two years but is not ready to give any surety about it. Now I would like to ask what was my fault after talking to his father he backout from everything which he committed to me. Damm we lived almost like in a live in relationship I cooked for him thrice a day I had shared bed with him what to I do I can't do this with any other one. Can you please help what to do.
I can't tell my mother this fact that I am physical with a him and his family know about this fact and they also aware about that I don't have my father! Even after having a small daughter they all made this for me and the mad who created this relationship after knowing all about me it's completed two years but didn't kept any of his commitment. My heart broken into pieces I am no more able to live with this fact that someone used me like this then telling me forget everything like a bad dream. I was a good girl of my family I was not a prostitute.!
Guest
(Expert) 20 February 2017
Better Meet a Good Psychologist of your Place and have a good counselling and then meet a good lawyer in Free Legal Aid women's forum in your concerned Court and Discuss.They would Guide and Assist you.Visit your Temple/Church/Mosque regularly.There are so many people in million who suffer more than you.Be Bold and Face your Issues.All the Best.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 20 February 2017
Agree with Rajkumar alias Narasimha..
Guest
(Expert) 20 February 2017
Thanks Ms.Usha Kapoor
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 20 February 2017
query too long.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 20 February 2017
Lease post you query with the real name or send a private message. B'coz, the query by anonymous person is not answered here.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 20 February 2017
Agreed with experts.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 20 February 2017
No reply to query from an author who is anonymous.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 20 February 2017
Thank you everyone to be concerned about it.
I need the solution please help me
My name is Sonia Taneja
Soniataneja01@gmail.com
Guest
(Expert) 21 February 2017
Madam Goyal the Lady Her Self Is an Anonymous Lady with No Profile/Details about Her Self
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 21 February 2017
Miss Sonia,
Personal opinion: Do you really think, after knowing his actual nature and unfaithfulness, you shall be able to live peacefully with him? It is advisable for you to move on. I can understand your emotions, but sometimes we need to be practical. Life is short and beautiful.. move on.
Legal opinion:As per the details mentioned by you, it is a clear fact that both of you were in a live in relationship as both of you were living together for a reasonable period of time. You can certainly take a legal and strict action against him. Now a days there are many contradictory judgments of various courts about these kind of issues. but there is certainly the law to get you the relief.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
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Kumar Doab
(Expert) 21 February 2017
You may post again with your ID.
You are likely to get many responses.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 21 February 2017
Thank you so much Adv. Yogen for your advice, I really appreciate your genuine advice for me. I don't want to let him be like this he can do the same with many other girls. I know I can't make him realise his mistakes but for me the impact of all these situations is like worst than hell. I am not able to overcome with the situation. I want to let him know he did wrong with me which he is not even accepting.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 21 February 2017
Thank you so much Adv. Yogen for your advice, I really appreciate your genuine advice for me. I don't want to let him be like this he can do the same with many other girls. I know I can't make him realise his mistakes but for me the impact of all these situations is like worst than hell. I am not able to overcome with the situation. I want to let him know he did wrong with me which he is not even accepting.
