Divorce
bibiana
(Querist) 30 October 2014
This query is : Resolved
would like to assist a good friend...he got married 4 years. wife promised she would stop bad habits of smoking n drinking which has not happened till date. she also physically abuses him. threatens that she will harm herself and put him and his family into problems, claim alimony, put him in jail, put allegations of extra marital affairs etc. if he separates.
been a couple of months he has started a new business and in a lot of tension due to financial problems and losses which have been accumulating as he is in no proper frame of mind to concentrate or give his 100 % due to all this.
he has decided he cannot live with her anymore and want to separate. she is working and doing well enough for herself.
she is taking advantage as the mother-in-law supports her totally just because of her name and reputation in the area they live in should not get spoilt so gives in to her and tells him he should handle her diplomatically etc. so life is just dragging on but ultimately he is dying from within and cannot take it any longer. his mom has good contacts with the local police and higher ups due to which he is hesistant to even file an nc in his interest.
kindly advise how he can come out of this situation as he cannot afford alimony etc what she keeps threatening him about.
Please reply asap
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 30 October 2014
sOCIAL PROBLEM / nOT A lEGAL PROBLEM.
nOTHING ILLEGAL...
ajay sethi
(Expert) 30 October 2014
contact a local lawyer and file for divorce . if wife is working and earning more than husband she wont get alimony
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 30 October 2014
is it related to your query on
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Divorce-504566.asp#.VFHN3meO5G0
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 30 October 2014
Take help of elders and relatives for amicable solution if not possible explore the possibility of mutual consent divorce.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 09 November 2014
The contested divorce takes more than 5 years in average to see the light of the day. SO mutual divorce is better option if both of you agree.
