Live-in relationship with x husband
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Anonymous
(Querist) 14 December 2011
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Sir/ madam
I got divorce one year ago due to some reason we have son who is living with his father (my X husband). Our parents (both families) now force both of us to marriage again for the son. I am agree but my x husband does not agree. He is right all fault was my. Now I am realizing I have done lot of wrong things in my life. My x husband said to my parent that he can accept me but without remarriage and also wants a written agreement that I am living along with him without any force his meaning is that living relationship. Now what should I do? Is it not risky? If I accept living relationship, what will be my future? In written agreement can I make some point so that I can make my future safe.
Thaking you
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 14 December 2011
Live in Relationship is itself a risky matter so you should keep on insisting re-marriage otherwise your future is bleak.
Even then if you want to take risk then do what ever your x-husband desires and when the circumstances become normal then you may get re-married with him. Beware that everything shall depend upon your behaviour which you realise was not proper and your x-husband has lost faith in you. You have to restore it. Leave aside agreements and try to reconcile everything.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 14 December 2011
ifyou were at fault your husband is right not in trusting you .
for the sake of your son reconcile your differnces .
if you are comfortable with idea of live in relation ship agree to the same .
Advocate. Arunagiri
(Expert) 14 December 2011
Live in relationship with X husband will complicate your personal life.
You convince him to get married once again.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 14 December 2011
Try that you both togather get some help from any social NGO working in this area or visit a psychologist along with him who can slowly make differences finished.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 14 December 2011
You were at fault.
You must surrender to him, and try sweet relationship, and after second delivery, or so, try to convince with whatever documentation he wants, for remarriage.
After all you are not at any loss, living with him.
Raj Saab, the future is already black now, and living with him, decreases it.
Society is there to protect your relationship, and he have to be with Social Life, He cannot go alone in Weddings, keeping your son and you at home. So it will help you enforce your rights. Once you live as h-w together, you are assured
Adv Shroff
14-12-2011
Shailesh Kr. Shah
(Expert) 15 December 2011
Give some time say to 6 months, and surrender to him, thereafter ask for marriage.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 15 December 2011
If it works then nothing like it.
If no, then you may loose the grounds for cases if pending or you wish to file.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 15 December 2011
Try Marriage Counselling.
For the sake of child a reunion is advised.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
Guest
(Expert) 15 December 2011
Agree with the opinion of S/Shri Ajay Sethi & Shroff.
kusum gupta
(Expert) 16 December 2011
so far as legality is concerned you are divorced and until unless you remarry you can not get the right of a wife. now living with him in relationship your future is not safe he may any time through you out however if he promise you to remarry then you can live with him as false commitment on marriage can lead to legal problem to him,
kusum gupta
