Case against boyfriend family
suhana
(Querist) 28 April 2015
This query is : Resolved
Since three years we are in a relationship, but boyfriends mom fixed his marriage forcefully with other girl and my boyfriend also want to marry me but his mom blackmailing him that she will commit a suicide. in this case what I have to do he is also helpless and even i.
M.Sheik Mohammed Ali
(Expert) 28 April 2015
where are you from ? for my wish's to succeed your marriage. best way you silently register your marriage at register office. afterthat no one question and threat you and your boy frnd.
suhana
(Querist) 28 April 2015
but he is afraid so he not ready to do something like that
Guest
(Expert) 28 April 2015
Your question is extraordinarily strange, when you propose, "Case against boyfriend family." That makes me believe, as if you want fo bevome the part of of the family of your boyfriend, as of a revenge. What type of a friend you are, when you want to file a criminal case against the family of your boy friend?
Better, forget him, if he unable to take any bold stand or not able to convince his mother. Even after marriage your life may become hell, if his mother is not agreeable to accept you as her daughter-in-law.
Let bygone be bygones.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 29 April 2015
In such a condition, forget your boy friend and move forward in your life.
Guest
(Expert) 29 April 2015
By the way, for what crime you want to file a criminal case against the family of your boyfriend?
ajay sethi
(Expert) 29 April 2015
forget the boy and move on in life
suhana
(Querist) 29 April 2015
See we had a commitment, 3 years is not a small period and i am asking about the solution its a sensitive relation mother and son and i am stucked i am trying to move on but i am not able to even I respect his family his mother but still I am a girl thats why I am not able to do anything so i am asking is there any way that i can take help of law. If i will move on it would be cheating somebody so please suggest something. not the running away options. Its not about one life its about four life's by commenting like this we are making our relations and marriages like playing of games.
Guest
(Expert) 29 April 2015
Ms. Suhana,
Is not it quite strange, when you say, "I respect his family his mother", when on the contrary, you intend to drag them to the court of law by filing a criminal case against the whole of your boyfriend's family?
It is also strange, when you say, "Its not about one life its about four life's by commenting like this we are making our relations and marriages like playing of games," whereas yourself is going to play not only with your own life, but also with the life of your boyfriend's family.
HOW ANYBODY CAN BELIEVE THAT YOURS IS A CASE OF FRIENDSHIP, WHILE YOU ARE BENT UPON TO PROVE THE WORST ENEMY FOR YOUR FRIEND & HIS FAMILY BY DRAGGING THEM IN TO A CRIMINAL CASE JUST TO SERVE YOUR SELFISH INTEREST?
You have not replied my erlier question, "for what crime you want to file a criminal case against the family of your boyfriend?" Except blackmailing your friend or his family, I don't find any other motive on your part.
MIND IT, HELP DOES NOT MEAN TO SUGGEST YOU THE WAYS & MEANS OF MISUSE OF LAW TO HELP YOU TAKING REVENGE TO SERVE YOUR SELFISH MOTIVE.
A few more questions arise out of your latest post, which you may like to reply. if you are so keen to chose devastating route for yourself and your friend also:
1) Why your marriage should be forced upon the family of your boyfriend, when you believe, yourself, "its a sensitive relation mother and son," and your boyfriend has no courage to make a court marriage, if he loves you?
2)Do you have any written commitment of the boy to marry you, in support of your statement, "we had a commitment"?
3) What would be the alternative for you, if your own boyfriend initiates a case of blackmailing against you in response to your launching a criminal case against his family?
BUT STILL, IF YOU ARE SO ADAMENT TO FILE A CRIMINAL CASE AGAINST YOUR BOYFRIEND'S FAMILY, BETTER HIRE SOME LOCAL LAWYER, SPEND SOME MONEY AS A CONSULTANCY FEE AND HIS PROFESIONAL FEE FOR FIGHTING A CASE FOR YOU IN THE COURT IN A BID TO ACHIEVE YOUR SELFISH MOTIVE TO SEE THE RESULTS.
BUT DON'T EXPECT EXPERTS HERE TO HELP YOU TO SETTLE YOUR SCORE WITH YOUR SO CALLED BOYFRIEND AND HIS FAMILY.
BEST OF LUCK!
suhana
(Querist) 29 April 2015
I am still asking you what would be better solution for that yes I am being selfish and i dont think so its wrong, guys can take a girl anywhere without asking mom and why at the time of marriage only they have moms reason. Is it correct thing that parents are taking advantage of there relation because there children loves them.
Guest
(Expert) 29 April 2015
We have already suggested you the better solutions, either forget him or hire some local lawyer and pay his consultancy fee and the fee for guidance and trial in order to fulfill your revengeful and selfish desire.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 29 April 2015
enough discussed.
if boy is being forced to marry against this wish by threat of his mother to commit suicide the let him file a criminal case against his own mother.
If he does not do so then you have no choice.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 30 April 2015
I do endorse the detailed advice of Ld. Dhingra ji.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 03 May 2015
Yes expert Mr. Dhingra has given a detailed explanation and proper reply which the author is no willing to understand for the reasons which can be obviously seen here from her versions. Let she not be encouraged anymore for her ill-motive intentions behind her query.
suhana
(Querist) 04 May 2015
Yes I respect all your suggestions i know i cant go legally because law will not help me for this but still with frustration i posted this but still all of you just think as i am your daughter and forgive me. It was my mistake that he is not helping me because his mother is threatening let it be will live like that only. Thank you so much.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 04 May 2015
you already know
" law will not help me"
you have also been advised well.
