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The thumb rule in any settlement exercise is to get quash of CrPC / IPC cases first then go in for divorce. Divorce decree is just for framing in yoru drawing wall but quashing crpc / ipc cases goes long way for everyone's peace like agreeing for part payment at the time of co operation for quash of IPC 498 then exchange streedhan and other items and then joint mutual consent divorce petition and some part payment at that time and rest when Decree sheet is prepared / awarded.
Now, in presented synosis I feel without hurting anyone here that u have been tricked into settlement by some Ld. people and or u r not intune ot legal systems and that is the reason u r being put back into the same system which is suposed to help u out of it !
I repeat here I donot want to hurt sentiments of Ld. members but this is case were this person has been tricked and it is very obvious from his synopsis so don't take me wrong.
Que. here is was it a pvt. settlement or was it stement given in court based settlement? Lok Adalat request was it based on mutual consent route with settlement statement or simply joint request to settle made by parties? U still can be rescued.
There are citations of DHC as well as SC which says where settlement once arrived can't be retracted by parties and that is where the conduct of parties are highlghted to get settlement terms and conditions get going. Many people miss the conduct part which is what I feel. In you case conduct will play a major role if u now approach HC with stay of lower court proceedings and get settlement executed as per terms directions from HC.
Also I feel u hurried for divorce before paying way for quash of IPC / CrPC cases and left a upper hand to wife's side which is now double edged sword she is enjoying. God bless u and may right path shown to u.
Impotenny is curable and is a temp phase of a man's life. Why u got so worried on some bald allegations of her and hurried with settlements and all that mess ups now?
Dear by saying not accepting to allegations means u r paying way for alternate relief in a divorce proceedings which is why lower court asked u to go back again and it surprises me the course u followed from begining there is some missing element of following procedures by someone among u two parties which has minutely messed this case.
Contact a good ld. counsel in your city or from this forum wth pros and cons discussion and it is a doable stuff within limitation is what I feel. All the best.
Rgds.,
D. Arun Kumar, New Delhi