My wife and I have been living seperately from more than one year with little or no communication at all. Our families have met twice without any fruitful outcome, they came to our house with all their family members (7-8 people) and created scenes twice. Kept on blaming us with false allegations of dowry etc. We have not taking single penny in marraige, the only way for them to put this across in legal forums would be through fabricated or false stories.
My wife is well educated, works in MNC earning good salary and is currently staying with her aunt. She is very aggressive, ill mannered, short tempered, egoistic person who doesnt cares about married relationships and is not willing to talk any sense out of this relationship. I tried to speak to her multiple times but have always received bashing responses where she starts blaming me for each and every issue. She has completely lost her mind, being fed by her mother since starting and is not willing to budge.
The issue is she wants me to beg after her for everything and ill treat my old parents. She has grown up in such environment with her parents, so it is impossible to change her mindset as I have tried numerous times. Last time we spoke, she demanded house to be transferred to her name, some written affidavit and promise that I will leave my parents forever and will never ask her to come back to them and live with her. I politely denied everything and suggested that if this is what she wants as contractual marraige, then better we seperate. She initially agreed but later on, her father demanded money and started false dowry allegations on us.
I have never asked her for dowry, infact my mother always told her that this is all yours in future but you must take care of this house. I only asked for for some monetary support as she was also earning well so I could pay off my loans and look for bigger home for future. She outrightly denied any help asking me to take money on loan from my MIL surprisingly
Nobody has initiated any case until now. We have asked them to sort this matter amicably and avoid destroying life of two individuals (me and her) but they are not interested and have clearly responded that we will see you in court and spoil your life. Recently, when my father called them, they have indirectly asked for alimony.
Me being the only earning member has huge loan to pay, and parents to take care of. Please guide me how to proceed on this matter. I dont want to spoil anybody's life but just want peace. Marraige is almost 3 years old now. Her parents took her from the our house (neighbours witnessed), and now they are blaming us. And they never tried to sent her back even once.