I am a NRI Muslim convert boy from Coimbatore Tamilnadu, but living in Kuwait (converted to Islam in Kuwait through IPC). I am in love with a wonderful loving Muslim girl who is in Kerala. We have presented our relationship to our parents and results were negative. However we have been thinking of getting married without the consent of our parents.We have no idea, how to go about with this.
The conditions we are looking at are:1.Register/ Civil/Court marriage. 2.Avoid notice send to girls house.
Please advise us how to go about getting married with the above conditions. Please help us.
Thank you very much considering me intend and taking the time to reply and advise.
We want to get married in India Tamilnadu. I have my permanent address in Coimbatore and my girlfriend in Kerala. More to add is her father is a gazetted officer would that in anyway complicate our process.
Her father's official status concerns me as, Govt employees are given very high preference.I am not sure but what if any documents pertaining to the Gazetted officer address are send by default to her house. And also am worried about the notice been send to her house. Otherwise nothing about her father's official status.
I am sorry if this was annoying. Hope you understand the situation we are in, fighting the worst possible imaginations or situation that may happen.We want to avoid even the worst case scenario.
First of all who told you that a notice will be sent to her house? next, what prevents you both to marry by Nikkah since you both are Muslims now?, You have not told about the willingness/objections from your house, if you have converted to Muslim, you can approach a mosque in Coimbatore and can ask their advise about this Nikkah and Nikkahnama after that, if that is not possible, you can marry her under the provisions of Special Marriages act. For further help and assistance you can approach a local lawyer who will be able to guide you properly.
I was always told that a notice will be send to the Girls and Boys address in the 1 months notice period.That is what is actually stopping us from getting married. I have also read on many websites that notice will be send.Sorry to bother you with this question again, Are you sure that notice will not be send to either of our houses?