we are hindu,
Wife filed MC & DVC after 3yr of deliberate separation by her only alongwith 1yr Kid. went to her place in other state.
MC notice came on old address which I left 2yr back but owner took and yet to appear for 1st time in court. without lawyer can i attend MC as it is 1st time?
DVC notice might come on old address,can I take this DVC notice or ignore as I am not staying there.
Should I file rcr/divorce/both or one? pls suggest BEFORE appearing MC should these be filed or AFTER? which is good? on RCR how she react no idea but we dont want to live together?
Childvisitation & Childcustody can be filed as part of Divorce is it good? or as separate petitions?
Should i file these cases in my state or her place? from SC she can get transfer these cases to her place? or can attend court in my place only, but in both cases is she can ask for expenses from me? if so pls suggest where to file and let us know pros&cons?
In above all scenarios pls let me know best strategy to adopt?