a. we have not completed one year of separation. We married 6 months ago and we have been living separately. She comes at my place once in a while but I didn't want to live with her as the mariage was a forced marriage on basis of emotional blackmail, duress and suicide blackmails. For some reason I mentioned her that we should wait till registartion of marriage and she agreed.
b. If by marriage is consummated - you mean a cohabitation or a physical relation - as i stated that she was already into that with me and looking for grooms for her marriage and assured me that she won't blackmail me later. So I dont know if it applies to me. however after marriage I managed her to admit on her mails, calls, voice recordings that she had done all this.
c. Yes regarding the suicide point, I have two or three calls recordings where a month ago she admitted to constatntlydoing this.
d. Regarding the fourth point - she fights over checking my cell, bashes my character by liking me with my ex gf's of 5 or 6 years ago - though i have no contact with them for years and they are married. So i dont give her cell phone cos seeing her nature she would start abusing me for femail colleagues and friends too. I have voice recordings, chats where she has admitted to saying so.
e. She has also offered to leave me by december and asked me to take a decision about our future. I can do it now but the point is she is my fellow colleague a senior[also in age by 5 years]. One or two days its fine but she starts the emotional blackmail or abusing after that so I want to aviod it and hire a lawyer once i am out of job from this office. I am putting my papers soon.
f. If she agrees for mutual - will it be an idea without going for MCD if we settle this among ourselves by delting all pics mutually and issuing a video that we both have agreed to do so and in future no one will claim to harass each other. Will that video act as a proof if after hiding a marriafe which is just legal cos of pics and not actally a normal marriage suffice?
