Dear Forum members,
I have been married since Nov 2011. Time from there has been hell. I have a very long story of my troubles but i want to cut it short.
My wife is dancing doll and listens to whatever crap her mother and her brother in law tells. I have been fighting to save the marriage since day 1 but it is not working. She is living in bangalore and used to come on weekends to mysore and pick up quarrel for all small things. Later on she stopped coming home and started accusing all my family members.
There was a huge push from her home side. Even we tried to convince here and told her to stay with us . She said that her work is more important to her than me and once in 2 months she used to stay at her parents house for along duration.
Her parents were called and told that this was not good. They started defending their dauhter and threatend us to file the false case of DV against us. We kept quiet fearing worse. then the mental torture has grown up since that. She is neither ready to stay with us nor move with me to a different city. She says if my BIL says to do anything i will do that .
On top of all she stayed on her work even when i was in hospital asking the same back she quareled and said will get seperated. Her father laughs at all these stuffs and says that she is a kid and dont take these things seriously.
Since last 3 months she has not come home afeter i questioned her where she was. Her father said that he will file a seperation and her mother said she will file a case of DV agianst us.
When we sent peple for negotiation, they have told them that we have to apologise and fall to thier feet and then they have laid out some conditions which says that they will look after me and i need to leave my parents and go with her to bangalore and she will not quit her job at any cost and move with me. This we sense is a preplan to lay the Dowry case against me.
She refused to have kids with me and also refused to sleep with me all these time. Indeed for the most of the time we have slept seperately and she is proud of it .
We have had a simple life all through our life and this demon is now haunting us My brother is yet ot get married and they are trying to spoil the same. I dont want my family to suffer because of me Kindly help us... I have been in a mentally shocking state since last 2 months which is leading me to a very bad state.
