The article from the link at the end of this post, is a heart-wrenching tale that relates to a 30-year old software engineer who has applied for divorce and committed suicide when her son of 2 years, was fast asleep.
As you read this post, I suggest strongly that you read each line with attention and VISUALIZE yourself to be that TWO-YEAR-OLD CHILD, fast asleep.
VISUALIZE yourself to be that TWO-YEAR-OLD CHILD, fast asleep.
A Two year old Child is fast asleep.
When it wakes up, it knows only TWO things.
One is MOTHER
The Other is HUNGER
Now, when the child wakes up and mother is dead in the bathroom, what will the child know ?
All that the 2-yr child would do is to resort to it's only known source of speech - CRYING and FEW WORDS.
But no one turns up and finally the servant maid turns up.
The Child recognizes a familiar face and hopes that mother too would shortly arrive.
But Mother does not.
" MOTHER IS DEAD "
A 2 year old Child would not remember Father's Face, if Father is in another city and does not visit.
Then Neighbours arrive, Then Police arrive.
Then the Ambulance, Then the doctors. The Child does not know who they are.
The Child does not know what is happening.
It keeps crying.
The servant maid attends to the child and simultaneously answers the police and public.
The child wants to urinate and pass stools.
It only knows to do it then and there or cry loudly. It might be able to speak a few words and not more.
Then the father arrives and straight-away goes to jail
( Police Station ---> Magistrate Court ---> Judicial Custody )
No Relatives on either side or at this stage it is unknown whether there are any and whether they would arrive and even if they arrive, whether they would take care of the child.
Then, the locked house.
Then, the items within the house, the bills, the items and places requiring cleaning, the pets,if any, the rent, the tax,...etc etc etc
Everything comes to a stand-still and a total HALT.
Life and it's Joys get transformed to Life and SORROWS.
The Child is crying. It is now hungry. It has to be content with whatever it gets.
It still cries. It is crying for MOTHER.
It becomes tired due to constant crying.
It dozes off to sleep.
The child's temperature reaches a feverish high.
It's survival is an uncertainty.
The father is still in Jail.
The Child cries again. It is searching for MOTHER.
Mother's body is in the mortuary or It might have been cremated.
This child, if it grows up, would have a disturbed child-hood and God alone knows if it would complete the journey of a meaningful life or if it would land into bad hands and get into drugs, immorality and gun-culture.
If it is a girl-child, all the more the cause for worry, in a society where girl-children as young as a few days old are kidnapped, fed and groomed and at one particular age, sold to prostitution.
AN INDIVIDUAL's LIFE-TIME CRIPPLED DUE TO ONE STEP OF THE MOTHER - THAT OF COMMITTING SUICIDE.
A WOMAN MEETS A MAN AT OFFICE, GETS INFATUATED, ASSUMES THAT TO BE LOVE, GETS MARRIED, LEAD A FAMILY LIFE, HAVE CHILDREN AND THEN DIVORCE !!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT NONSENSE ??? !!! ???
IT IS EXACTLY SIMILAR TO A PERSON TELLING YOU THAT HE IS DRAINING YOUR BLOOD FROM YOUR BODY SO THAT YOU CAN VISIT A HOSPITAL AND HAVE BLOOD TRANSFUSION FROM DONATED BLOOD.
IT IS MUCH MORE ABSURD TO GET MARRIED AND HAVE CHILDREN SO THAT YOU CAN DIVORCE AND PUSH YOUNG HELP-LESS CHILDREN INTO A LIFE-TIME OF PSYCHOLOGICAL SCARS AND WHOLE LOT OF ISSUES ON ALMOST ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE.
SUCH COUPLE MIGHT AS WELL HAVE HAD A LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP AND REMAINED WITHOUT KIDS.
IN THE YEARS TO COME, INDIA WILL WITNESS MANY CHILDREN of DIVORCED COUPLES, PUSHED INTO HELL BY SUCH IRRESPONSIBLE PARENTS. MANY AMONG THOSE CHILDREN WILL HAVE DISTURBED CHILDHOOD AND WILL GROW HAPHAZARDLY AND NOT NORMALLY.
SO, IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN, DO NOT DIVORCE.
CREATE A UNIQUE TRACK FOR YOURSELF ON YOUR LIFE's JOURNEY, on THE RIGHT SIDE OF THE LAW, BUT DO NOT DIVORCE, IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN.
IF YOU DIVORCE AND SUBJECT THE CHILDREN TO HELL ON EARTH, YOU ARE WORSE CRIMINALS THAN THE CRIMINALS LANGUISHING IN JAIL ON LIFE-IMPRISONMENT after BEING CONVICTED OF EXTREMELY SERIOUS, HORRIBLE, DEADLY, DANGEROUS AND DISASTROUS CRIMES.
AS LONG AS YOUR WIFE IS NOT INTO ADULTERY AND AS LONG AS THE HUSBAND IS NOT INTO IMMORALITY TRAFFICKING WOMEN AND CHILDREN AND SELLING THEM, DO NOT DIVORCE.
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