Due to some differences between me and my wife we had decided to file for a MCD. My wife then moved out of matrimonial house without any fight or anything (I never forced her to leave). Till last minute we had discussed and aggreed that even after separation we would take care of our kid together and we will not allow our separation to impact our kid. However, wife stopped taking calls from me or my family and refusing to allow me to meet my daughter. Also, immediately she filed some complaint in Women's police station in Bangalore (that's where we live) against us (I and my parents) and we got a notice to appear there on a specific date. Now because of this sudden change in her behaviour, we are fearing that she had pre-planned this to harrass us by misusing the women protection laws and she may go to any extent like false DV/498a cases just to harrass us.
Now my question, is it safe to appear before the police without AB (which we may not get before the appearace date because of holidays)? As I understand from lawyers that she may ask police to convert the notice to 498a or may play some dirty tricks to get us arrested without any evidence?
Is it okay NOT to appear thana on the specified date and requst them to postpone the date of appearance (so we can get our AB by then)?