Divorce

1. May be you may try 'desertion' as ground to seek divorce from her and may bring into record her old statement in a RCR case. In DV proceedings same statement certified copy can be made part of proceedings. 

2. Make required entries in visitation - meeting register, if the visitation ordered for you then donot bring others to court room, no photography, packed eatables with expiry date should only be given to minor, gift(s) can be brought to give to minor, act like monkey initially and after gaining trust of natural mother for the visitation period only then play like father with your minor, always remember Indian courts r/w natural mother who has custody of minor makes the minor turn into major to derive any worthwhile visitation by non-custodial parent hence always keep patience and leave rejections in hands of ld. Judge until you know how actually custody battles for minor children of parties are fought in Indian Courts. 

3. Challenge authenticity r/w need of  such medicals by filing appropriate protest Application under S. 151 CPC to call for medical doctor for examination who is making such reports. Also indirectly project to concerned Court that in custody of natural mother the minor of parties is more prone to such medicals if minor had been in your custody which is worth probing by ld. Judge. Thus seek compensatory additional time Ordered for next court visitation date in favour of you.

thanks a lot for the response

My main cause of concern at this moment is , should I go ahead with DIVORCE on the basis of RCR judgement with DV CASE STILL GOING ON, and Will  there be any effect of my DIVORCE case on DV case filed by my wife.

please guide...........