FARHAN RAZA KHAN 27 April 2017
Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech.] (Scientist/Engineer) 03 May 2017
I gather that your wife is not staying with you. Did she ever stay with you? They can give problem under IPC 498A, DVA etc. You have to carefully watch what next step they take. Have a lawyer now itself to advise you. Negotiate and get divorce with minimum compensation. Preserve record of everything. Generally this is a game. You have to watch every step.
FARHAN RAZA KHAN 03 May 2017
Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech.] (Scientist/Engineer) 03 May 2017
Are both of you in the same city, town or place? This is like a game of cards. One will not know what will be the next move of the other party. Appear to be cordial and to be negotiating. Tell your mother and others also to appear cordial. Keep record and evidence of things happening and exchanged. You said that your wife came to your place and took away some jewellery. Have you got any kind of record of that? Are any of the items belonging to your wife still left in your house? In future try to create record of things, including consultation with doctors, test reports etc.
FARHAN RAZA KHAN 19 May 2017
Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech.] (Scientist/Engineer) 19 May 2017
Have a lawyer ready for any emergency. You need not engage him now. But apprise of all the facts and seek his advice also. You also seek his advice as how to move towards divorce. I think you should get divorce in an amicable manner and at the earliest.
FARHAN RAZA KHAN 23 May 2017
On 19/5/2017 I got a police notice to appear before the asst. inspector of police. I met the asst. inspector along my father at the police chowki where he asked me. He questioned me and told me that a dowry case, harassment and abuse case is filed by your in laws. As well as your mother has kept your wife jewelleries. And you cousin and his wife also stays at your address and they are destroying your relation with the girl. My in laws have blame me of asking huge amount of dowry and also mentioned that my father demanded 15lacs and ask the girl to sell off her jewelleries so that we can buy a property. Well again I was called on 22/5/2017 to record my official statement in which I denied al the blames put on me and my family members concerning theft of jewelleries, dowry demand and harassment. I told the the police that I want to get separated with the girl because she has Genu Valgum problem in her right (its bend and she often fells down by losing balance which her parent hid from me) and breast hypertrophy [grade 3] problem. And both is treatable by a surgery only and these facts were not told to me before marriage. And further, she has swept away her jewelleries and my jewelleries and left the box in the cupboard lying to put false case against me and I also have proof where in she has accepted over the call that she has taken away all jewelleries along with all documents and other stuffs. Again in the evening we were calle back to police chowki despite spending 4-5hrs during the same in there. The opponents already sitting there. The policeman told me that your opponents says that the girl's doctor has said that she is which I denied that the doctor's certification is false. And I am not ready to live with her anymore after all this has happened. Then the policeman turned to the opponents and ask them to take some 5-6lacs money and finish it with a mutual consent divorce instead of what they are asking[30lacs compensation + 17 lacs marriage cost]. They denied. The left. and policeman has told me that we will be called again. Could you please advise me in this matter.
Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech.] (Scientist/Engineer) 23 May 2017