|Originally posted by : sandy
||I am a 35 year old lady with a 8 year old child . my husband is a nri , we married 9 years ago in india after which we went abroad . i came back to get my baby delivered in india again . due to frequent physical abuse and dowrdy demand from my inlaws , and our inability to give in to their demands i was kicked out of my inlaws house in india 4 years ago , we have filed 498 case , domestic violence case and 125 maintanence case . i had to leave their home and live with my dad . i and my husband had come to India 4 years ago for a visit but things when out of our hand and he absonded from the country 4 years ago . So my husband is absonding from the last 4 years , so i am not getting any maintanence from my husband and nor from any one from my inlaws .
NOW THE ACTUAL ISSUE : His mother has asked for a Access to her grand son which the family court has given her once in every month for 3 hours , but my child does not gel with her as shes a very abusing lady , she even gives him bad words in the children access room . and he never goes inside the room without my being there . my child is goin through a lot of depression and truma coz of this meeting with his grand mother . a week ago shes put one more petition in family court asking for the change of adress of the acess to her house which is abt 3 hours travelling one way from my house . me goin to their house is a life threating thing for me
Please suggest me how can i stop this change of adress of acess and stop the acess of the grand parents totally . i am very tensed as me and my child we both life are in danger as my inlaws are not from a good background
please reply as soon as possible
You came for delivery and directly went to your dads house never went back with him and filed all sorts of cases on him and his family, he ran away never to come back.
Now in-laws want access to child, let them have it. Why still make a fuss, this will be entry ticket for you to gain access into his life again. If they really had demanded dowry etc, they would not have bothered to see the child also.
What you are telling is false. They want to see their grandson irrespective of whther your story is true or false.
Let them have it, at least child will get to know grandparents love. You are not letting the kid meet in child access room hence they have given application for meeting in comfort of their own home.
Go there show kid to them and come back, if possible take police along with you or some hired local goons.
Your husband is scared and ran off, they will be even more scared of you to let u enter their house, you go aaram se and come. A 498a wife does not need police or goons protection, you being woman is enough. If something happens shout at the top of your voice bACHAO Bachao. That surely wll help you, and hope this reply also help you.