My opinion on your queries are as under:
1. Can I get divorce from the girl when I have applied for cancellation of 125 interim maintenance & quashing of 498a.
Opinion: It is matter of facts and circumstances without knowing the facts we are not advise you.
2. Also can I still fight 498a and maintenance even if I agree for divorce.
Opinion; If both the parties are ready for divorce then execute a compromise deed/MOU and file MCD u/s 13B of HMA. with the conditions that all cases will be withdrawn by the parties.
3. Please guide me how can I take legal action against my wife if high court quashes 498a. It’s a humble request you to guide me in above three points on priority.
Opinion: If HC quashed the FIR on merit then you may file a criminal case against her for malicious prosecution and defamation.
you may also civil suit for defamation and claim the damages based on your reputation.
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