My boyfriend cheated on me ... wat should i do now
Natasha
(Querist) 10 September 2014
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i was having 7 years live in relationship with one guy.... he was always forcing me to have physical relations... but he always promised me that he will 110% marry me.... at the beginning of affair i told him... ki dekh m average looking n belongs to middle class family... n m not from time pass type of girls.. if u r serious and sure... then only m ready to enter in affair with you....now after 7 years he introduces me to his parents.. his parents totally dislikes me... and now his parents are giving the reason that ki kundlis are not matching .... but before introduction , kundlis were very well matched........
3 years ago , i got pregnant also but aborted
m too depressed now... taking pills to sleep....
my bf changed his mob number.... he breaks promise of marrying.... what should i do now....
Guest
(Expert) 10 September 2014
Register a complaint with the local police by describing in details how the man exploited you.
They will do the needful...
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 10 September 2014
Police complaint..
You will get money/ not man
waiting over 6 months was your mistake...
no phy relation before marriage, in any case..
Ashish Dongre
(Expert) 10 September 2014
Complaint to local police station,but before that talk to your bf regarding your grievance ONE Last time.
Advocate. Arunagiri
(Expert) 10 September 2014
By giving police complaint you can punish that man but, if you want a life, request any of your common friend to talk to that boy.
Let that common man explain the legal consequences also.
Try your level best.
Natasha
(Querist) 10 September 2014
yes , i will do that.....
but is it worth if i involve my parents in this matter.......
my parents dont know anything
Natasha
(Querist) 10 September 2014
but if i do complaint... then what are the legal consequences
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 10 September 2014
your parents would know sooner or later, better involve them at initial stage.
In the complaint, you will have to spend lot of money and time during the case. You may not get the man now or afterwards. If you successfully prove your case he can be punished.
another option, in spite to spend 4-5 years in court case, forget all the events, move ahead with your life.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 10 September 2014
Agree with experts..no need to involve parents.
Advocate. Arunagiri
(Expert) 10 September 2014
If you go for a police complaint, the information will reach your parents.
So, you can not keep your parents in dark.
Take the help of your parents.
Based on the complaint, if you are able to prove your case to the satisfaction of the investigation officer, he will arrest the boy. If evidences are strong, case will be filed in the court. Court will award punishment depending upon the offenses proved.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 11 September 2014
since you had a live in relation ship for 7 years see maintenance and other reliefs from your bf under DV act
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 15 September 2014
It is live in relationship for around 7 years on the basis of false promise to marry you. Well, you have solutions legally or otherwise. Legally by lodging police complaint and DV case, or can involve people and settle with amicable talks.
