Break up before Marriage
PJBSCUFRPR
(Querist) 26 April 2017
This query is : Resolved
R sir/ mam. I am 33 years old and divorced on 2015 . Now on 2017 my family has registered my name in. Matrimonial site and selected one girl too with that site. I have been in conversation with her in Whatsup and mobile since march 2017 last month and proposed each other too in text without any meeting and by watching only profile photo . Now 5 days before she came to my city with her family and my family including me went to their cousin home for general meeting. After meeting I observed that her nature is not so suitable and she only need me but not my family. So don't want to continue with her any more. So please suggest if I reject her or break up with her so can she file any case on me or my family.pls suggest it's urgent.
Guest
(Expert) 26 April 2017
Your query sounds with guilt.If at all you are genuine and your query is genuine there is no need for legal guidance.just do not play with Women our country is Bharat Matha.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 27 April 2017
"I reject her or break up with her so can she file any case on me or my family.pls suggest it's urgent. "
YES.
Unless you have a valid reason for walking out (though it is not binding for you to get married) still and allegation of refusal to marry because of dowry demand, can also be made. If you had physical relation then much more allegations can be there.
Guest
(Expert) 27 April 2017
Based on the stated facts, I don't think you have any compulsion not to withdraw your proposal at this initial stage quoting reason of her not being ready to accept your family. Otherwise, you may be inviting unending problem and trauma for the whole life, not only for your family members but also for yourself. The drama of divorce will have to be enacted again with several false cases against you after your marriage.
So, nip the evil in the bud. She may not be any solid reason to file any case against you, provided you did not have any physical relations with her so far,
Discuss in detail the pros & cons with your family members and act wisely now.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 27 April 2017
You have registered with matrimonial website and then interacted and met.
(Nobody knows other than you what is exchanged in messages and calls between both of you.)
The match is not suitable for marriage.
Convey decently and preferably in presence of same/some relatives (unshakable witnesses) from your side, without any altercations.
PJBSCUFRPR
(Querist) 27 April 2017
Res sudhir Kumar sir. I don't have any physical relationship with her . We have just proposed in watsup before family meeting and she only convinced me for conversation in Whatsup and phone after accepting my proposal through matrimonial site/I'd . I am also not playing with her bcoz I belongs to good and innocent family . So please suggest how can she file a case of dowry to me and my family as I have not demanded and which grounds without any proof. I am scared and worried about future. So asking for suggestions. Pls help.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 28 April 2017
The query is based on assumptions, no action can be taken since no relation is matured/ established. Even if she adventures to file any case, it is bound to be dismissed.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 28 April 2017
Agreeing with Dr.J.C. Vashista.
Beyond this: You had a lawyer.
Discuss in person with your own lawyer.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 30 April 2017
"So please suggest how can she file a case of dowry to me and my family as I have not demanded and which grounds without any proof."
Please do not question an expert who is devoting his spare time in seeing the gravity of the problem.
I am not here to suggest anything on her behalf whom I do not even know. Dowry allegations is always based on verbal allegation. None is stupid enough to demand dowry in writing.
You have been told of the danger involved it is your choice to be cautious or to turn blind eye.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 30 April 2017
Hope you shall take it positively.
Doodh Ka Jalaa Chaach ko bhi phoonk phoonk kar pita hai.
There is nothing wrong in taking full precautions and if you perturbed discuss with your own counsel in person.
