My husband tortures me mentally and physically
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Anonymous
(Querist) 02 August 2015
This query is : Resolved
I was married in november 2014. i am 24years old i am from mumbai and he is from uttarpardesh west. It was an arranged marriage. I had a kidney stone operation earlier because of which my hymen was damaged before my marriage. My parents informed this to my husband before marriage about my surgery. In spite of that since our first night my husband is suspecting me of having had intercourse before marriage he is not ready to believe me in any case . He wants me to tell him names of my past relationship n beats me n tortures me both physically and mentally if i disagree. He suspects me of having a relationship with my cousin.. he told me to speak to my cousin and heard the conversation, than he told ok i am sorry i was wrong. Asking me call him again and confirm if i retaliate he burns me with cigarettes and cuts me also beats me with belts . I was not allowed to speak to my parents .. if i speak when they call on his phone he would hear it and tell me to not complain about him. he didnt allow me to go to relative function or my parents house or talk to anyone he would monitor all calls and movements even when i used the washroom. He has forcefully recorded my audio making me falsely confess to having affairs before marriage which he can use as evidence against me. I hav several marks of cigarette burns and cuts and wounds all over my body. He had also removed my naked pictures n shot videos with which he blackmails me to obey him. I am right now at my mother's house my father bought me from there. and am seeking help and guidance for my good future life with him or to punish him very severly . my parents is upset seeing me and cries, now they dont want me to go there again. they hav expend a lot on my reception.........
also guide can i do medical as i just came 4 days back to my parents house and my cuts are 3 months old. .....as this is the only proof i have
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 02 August 2015
The man deserves to be in lock up. You have not reported to police.
PARDEEP KUMAR
(Expert) 02 August 2015
Immediately lodge a FIR and also a complaint under Domestic Violence Act to avail all reliefs provided therein, ask the police to get yourself medically examined. Take help of a local competent Advocate.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 02 August 2015
You should lodge complaint to the police at your home town. Consult local lawyer.
Laxmi Kant Joshi
(Expert) 02 August 2015
Without delay lodge a FIR against him, ask the police for your medical examine .
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 02 August 2015
Apart from what the above legal experts adviced, U are left with a last resort,drag him on the street and trash him black and blue.My personal opinion for such creatures,who have no place to live on this earth.
Well legally speaking,immediately lodge a complaint with the CAW cell and teach him a lesson of his life.
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 03 August 2015
identify yourself, there is nothing to hide yourself,
without disclosing your self we will not advise you
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Anonymous
(Querist) 03 August 2015
My inlaws have kept all my gold 300gm now they saying i took it away.
they use to ask dowry aswell that time when i was there.
actually i wanted to leave good life with him, i didnt wanted to complain. i am still confused and mentally disturbed. he does blackmagic on me.
My parents went in local police today got a hopeless answer. they said go to U.P and file a case over there as crime was done there.
for medicle they require police instructions.
..
MY family is tensed and i am so confused..
and scared cause my husband has a criminal and negative mind..
i am not in a good state.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 03 August 2015
My inlaws have kept all my gold 300gm now they saying i took it away.
they use to ask dowry aswell that time when i was there.
actually i wanted to leave good life with him, i didnt wanted to complain. i am still confused and mentally disturbed. he does blackmagic on me.
My parents went in local police today got a hopeless answer. they said go to U.P and file a case over there as crime was done there.
for medicle they require police instructions.
..
MY family is tensed and i am so confused..
and scared cause my husband has a criminal and negative mind..
i am not in a good state.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 03 August 2015
My inlaws have kept all my gold 300gm now they saying i took it away.
they use to ask dowry aswell that time when i was there.
actually i wanted to leave good life with him, i didnt wanted to complain. i am still confused and mentally disturbed. he does blackmagic on me.
My parents went in local police today got a hopeless answer. they said go to U.P and file a case over there as crime was done there.
for medicle they require police instructions.
..
MY family is tensed and i am so confused..
and scared cause my husband has a criminal and negative mind..
i am not in a good state of mind.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 11 August 2015
The police cannot say that you have to lodge a complaint only at UP, they can very well register a FIR in Mumbai too, you may contact the higher police official at Mumbai for the grievances against the local police who refused to take your complaint.
Guest
(Expert) 11 August 2015
The FIR has to be Registered in the Police Station with in Whose Geographical Limits the Crime took Place.Only in Case Any Genuine Emergency there is No Bar On any other Police Station Registering the FIR and then Transferring the Investigation to Correct Station.In your case it is Other State As Well and Mumbai Police are Right.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 15 August 2015
you are not going to police station better continue tense and seek emotional sympathy of everyone around you.
you ave no other way
