My wife blackmailing me and making remours in my community / society that i m demanding dowry
ujagar
(Querist) 23 December 2012
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir,
can you help me to know what is the possible action she can take against me, and what should i do to come over from all this
Facts of my case r as below -
> we were wedded on 4.052011,
> "Bidai (Gona)" on 24.02.2012
> She leave her matrimonial house i.e. in Mathura, on 8.05.2012 (when i was returning to my Job Place i.e. Vadodara, Guj. alone, leaving her at my native i.e. in Mathura), i.e she leaved my home with in 2.5 month of marriage(effectively).
> when she leaved her matrimonial house, she was pregnant, now we hv baby girls (born on 7.12.12)
> the problem is that - there was not a single problem between us while we are together, but when she leaved my house, she started spreading rumors (gossips) that i m demanding dowry, and her parents and specially her brother supporting him.
> since 8.05.2012, she neither contacted me nor to my parents, except last month she called me and demanding money for her maternity. but i was denied to give her any money in my reply.
> another problem is that, we belong to one small community, in which all peoples know each other, now because of her gossips, we are loosing our reputation in our society/ community.
> she want to stay with me at my job place, otherwise she .....
> for your information..
i am preparing for my CA Final Exam, and i am doing part time job, and financially i am not allowed to lived with her, until my CA get cleared, only last group of my CA Final is pending, she dont have patience, due to all her drama i spoiling my future.
> sir can you pls let me know, what possible action she can take against me or against my parents, if she opt to go with legal action,
> and what is the remedy left with me, to protect my self and my family.
Thanks in advance
Ujagar
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 23 December 2012
Peace is never constly.
Have you tried to understand why did she leave.
ujagar
(Querist) 23 December 2012
yes! she want to stay with me at my job place, otherwise she .....
for your information..
i am preparing for my CA Final Exam, and i am doing part time job, and financially i am not allowed to lived with her, until my CA get cleared, only last group of my CA Final is pending, she dont have patience, due to all her drama i spoiling my future.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 23 December 2012
send her a email stating that even you want her to stay with you in Vadodra (wherein you are working ).
however since your CA final exams are due on _____date it would be advisable for her to join you after the exams are over . since the child is small his incessant crying at night or during day time would make it difficult for you to concentrate on your studies .
further say that you love her and the kid very much and you are looking forward to reunion
ajay sethi
(Expert) 23 December 2012
also mention that you have never demanded dowry and are in position to support her and the kid from your own earnings .
ujagar
(Querist) 23 December 2012
thx ajai ji
but i want to know what possible action she can take, if she go with litigation.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 23 December 2012
Sh can bring various kinds of legal proceedings like case u/s 498A, 406 IPC, case under PWDV Act, divorce suit to mention a few.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 23 December 2012
You have married without any proper steady source of income.
You stated that she is willing to live with you and has left your parental home. Even without your confession it is clear that your house is not conclusive for her stay (at least as per her view).
You say that she has no patience why should she when you had no patience before getting married. Marriage is not a ritual or fun, it is a responsibility very great one.
Read what Mr Burman has advised. She can throw your dreams of being CA down the drain.
You have to beg for peace. No choice.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 23 December 2012
laws are in favour of women . she cna file case under DV act ,498A , . also file for divorce
